In His Own Words
About Him
I'm a 58 year old top coloured chap, with strong values, beliefs and principles. Enjoy the simple things in life and lives from my heart. Long walks, healthy eating habits and activities, personal hygiene, directed by happiness, goal orientated, personal vision, compassion, caring and stand your grown, will earn you my sincere and appreciative friendship.
The heart lives in the present moment, knowing that is where life is to lived. The heart is concerned with healing into wholeness, love, compassion and service to other human beings. The greatest treasures are the treasures that lie within. Measure your life not by decades but by deeds. I've learned that lasting happiness comes by giving, not getting. The Chinese say it so well: "A little fragrance always cling to the hand that gives roses."
I cannot believe that the purpose of life is to be "Happy". I think the purpose of life is to be useful, to be responsible, to be compassionate. It is, above all, to matter: to count, to stand for something, to have made some difference that you have lived well. - Leo C. Rosten
Hope is Faith holding out its hand in the dark. - George Iles
If you lose hope, somehow you lose the vitality that keeps life moving, you lose that courage to be, that quality that helps you go on in spite of it all.And so today I still have a dream. - Martin Luther King, Jr
I believe in the preciousness of every human life and of life itself; I believe in the necessity of people having freedom, so they can grow and express who they are. I believe in living authentically, from our deepest essence. I believe we are all much, much more than we think we are and that life is mostly about discovering and uncovering all that we have the potential to be. The tragedy of life is not death, but what we let die inside of us while we live. Through these thoughts I create my own seasons of life ..
About His Ideal Match
A person with integrity, sense of humor and selfworth, believe in himself, navigated by his values, beliefs and principles, be sincere when offering a hand of friendship, must be caring and compassionate, excited about life, embrace the seasons of life.
" ...that you are the master of your thought, the molder of your character and the shaper of condition, environment and destiny." James Allen
I've always believed that if i made the life of even one other person a little bit better, then my life will have been a valuable exercise.
"You get the best out of others when you give the best of yourself" - Harry Firestone
Above all, i believe in any friendship or relationship:
1. maintain realistic expectations
2. accept the other's differences
3. remain faithful no matter what (not destructive to yourself!)
4. be forgiving for one another
5. always fellowship together
What His Friends Say
Elsadai hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Paarl, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 67 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; German | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Food Services; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Other; Political | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Well-behaved; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I have a moustache |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Moody; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Brown |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Travel |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Meditation; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Cycling; Tennis; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Volunteering |
Time Online: |
Less than once a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Honesty: |
Very |
