Elsadai

56 – Paarl, Western Cape, South Africa

Different but Myself and live from the heart

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Paarl, Western Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
56
Star Sign:
Virgo
Height:
Ask me later
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Black
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Ask me later
Home Language:
Ask me later
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; English
Religion:
Christian / Protestant
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Teacher / Professor
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
45 - 67
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Disabled
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; English; German
Religion:
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Islamic; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker
Education:
Some University / College; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Food Services; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Other; Political
Income:
Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I'm a 49 year old top coloured chap, with strong values, beliefs and principles. Enjoy the simlpe things in life and lives from my heart. Long walks, healthy eating habits and activities, personal hygiene, directed by happiness, goal orientated, personal vision, compassion, caring and stand your grown, will earn you my sincere and appreciative friendship.
The heart lives in the present moment, knowing that is where life is to lived. The heart is concerned with healing into wholeness, love, compassion and service to other human beings. The greatest treasures are the treasures that lie within. Measure your life not by decades but by deeds. I've learned that lasting happiness comes by giving, not getting. The Chinese say it so well: "A little fragrance always cling to the hand that gives roses."
I cannot believe that the purpose of life is to be "Happy". I think the purpose of life is to be useful, to be responsible, to be compassionate. It is, above all, to matter: to count, to stand for something, to have made some difference that you have lived well. - Leo C. Rosten
Hope is Faith holding out its hand in the dark. - George Iles
If you lose hope, somehow you lose the vitality that keeps life moving, you lose that courage to be, that quality that helps you go on in spite of it all.And so today I still have a dream. - Martin Luther King, Jr
Excellence can be attained if you care more than others think is wise, risk more than others think is safe, dream more than others think is practical, expect more than others think is possible - Jim Gentil

I believe in the preciousness of every human life and of life itself; I believe in the necessity of people having freedom, so they can grow and express who they are. I believe in living authentically, from our deepest essence. I believe we are all much, much more than we think we are and that life is mostly about discovering and uncovering all that we have the potential to be. The tragedy of life is not death, but what we let die inside of us while we live.

About His Ideal Match

A person with integrity, sense of humor and selfworth, believe in himself, navigated by his values, beliefs and principles, be sincere when offering a hand of friendship, must be caring and compassionate, excited about life, embrace the seasons of life.
" ...that you are the master of your thought, the molder of your character and the shaper of condition, environment and destiny." James Allen
I've always believed that if i made the life of even one other person a little bit better, then my life will have been a valuable exercise.
"You get the best out of others when you give the best of yourself" - Harry Firestone
Above all, i believe in any friendship or relationship:
1. maintain realistic expectations
2. accept the other's differences
3. remain faithful no matter what (not destructive to yourself!)
4. be forgiving for one another
5. always fellowship together
It is strange how we plan for tomorrow, we have no guarentee to wake up, but we still plan for tomorrow, that is called hope, i like to express the hope that we'll be able to meet one day.

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short; Curly; Well-behaved; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear contacts
Facial Hair:
I have a moustache
Body Hair:
Smooth
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Street Smart
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Moody; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite Colour:
Brown
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Classical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul
Reading:
I love it
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Travel
TV Shows:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie Preferences:
Action; Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Healthy living; Meditation; Reading
Sport Involvement:
Not involved at all
Sports:
Cycling; Tennis; Volleyball
Food
Cooking:
I can't or won't cook
Food:
Seafood; South African
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Volunteering
Time Online:
Less than once a week
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth
The Deep Stuff
Religious Attendance:
More than once a week
Dream Home:
Other
Politics:
Liberal
Retirement Plans:
Backpacking around the globe
Honesty:
Very