In Her Own Words
About Her
Ek is 'n geskeide ma met 'n baie begaafde dogter van 21 jaar. Ek het op 'n baie laat stadium van my lewe uitgevind ek wil nie net heeldag boeke doen en voor 'n rekenaar sit nie. Ek sal genoodsaak wees om dit nog vir 'n geruime tyd te doen, maar my passie is om kinders met leerprobleme te help. Ek het my graad in B-Ed (Grondslagfase) voltooi. Die volgende stap vir my is om my honneurs en meesters te doen in remediërende onderwys. Geld en tyd moet baie ekonomies gebruik word en veel tyd vir sogenaamde "fun" is daar dus nie.
Ek stel hoë standaarde aan myself en aan my metgesel. Hoë morele waardes is belangrik.
Ek is baie lief vir diere. My diere het ook 'n groot invloed op my. So diereliefhebbers sal verstaan wat ek bedoel. Veral honde en katte.
Hoe meer ek na mense se dinge luister en ook na die groep kyk, is daar glad nie meer 'n maatjie vir my nie. Ek het al baie my vertroue in die teenoorgestelde geslag verloor, maar ek begin dink al die goeie mans is al reeds opgeeis. Wat ook opvallend is, is dat baie wel 'n kort boodskappie stuur, maar as ek antwoord, dan word ek geignoreer. ???? Regtig?????? Ek het baie min of glad nie meer vertroue in mense nie. Teleurstelling op teleurstelling.
E k dink eerbare en eerlike mans bestaan glad nie meer nie. Hoe meer ek die dinge uitkyk, besef ek eerbaar, eerlik en opreg is nie meer deel van enige iemand se bestaan nie. As jy wel eerbaar, eerlik en opreg is, bewys my verkeerd.
Ja ek het baie issues, maar my ex is glad nie meer betrokke nie. (Al haak my kop uit en ek blameer hom vir als, iemand moet die die skuld kry, hy is glad nie meer deel van my of my kind se lewe nie).
GROOT TELEURSTELLINGS........... Lyk my die meeste 'nice' mans is klaar opgeeis!!!!!! Somewhere het ek iets gemis, maar weet nie wat nie. Lyk my hierdie dating sites werk nie.
About Her Ideal Match
Dis moeilik om seker die ideale pasmaat te kry. Ek het al genoeg seergekry in my lewe. Dus is dit belangrik dat iemand spesiaal my moet kan aanvaar soos ek is. En ek weet dit klink kras, maar ek is bang vir mense wat glo die lewe gaan net oor een ding: sex.
Iemand om mee te gesels, veral oor 'n naweek. Hy moet lief wees vir kinders en diere. Ek weet dat niemand belangstel in iemand anders se bagasie nie, maar iemand wat lekker kan gesels en ook al met die moeilike kant van die lewe kennisgemaak het kan dalk werk. Vir my is dit ook BAIE BELANGRIK dat iemand my met al my issues en dinge sal aanvaar en nie heeldag kritiseer nie. EERLIK, OPREG, EERBAAR.
My ideale pasmaat sal definitief nie sonder foute en probleme wees nie. Niemand is volmaak nie. Intelligent, well educated, manners mattered, nice personality, friendly and caring to the people he love.
En die HEEL BELANGRIKSTE is ook dat die spesiale persoon wat my sal aanvaar met al my issues, my kind ook sal aanvaar. Sorry julle, maar dis deel van my pakket en dit sal nie verander nie.
It's a jungle out there and its scary.........
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bethlehem, Free State, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
159cm (5' 2.6") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
46 - 56 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
English; Other | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Other | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
I don't have one |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Opera |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Drama |
Interests: |
Photography; Reading; Shopping |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Horse Riding; Martial arts |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Fish; Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Flirting; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |