In His Own Words
About Him
I've brought up three kids as a single parent (2 daughters) and put 2 thru UCT and they're off to NY and LA respectively via a year in Korea teaching. One a young movi director the other doing masters in African studies,photography and running fashion company. Only one left finishing high school an she says i bug her too much I must get a girlfriend. So yes I"m a bit bored not having someone to share intimate little things with. I still have much to offer thru my involvement in live creative entertainent production and dance venues. I cook and love outdoors, developed a nature reserve, love books and movis, jam a bit with a few instruments, love to play, love freedom with responsibility, don't judge in a dogmatic or self-righteous manner, don't like borders,labels,group/mob politics and 'isms, do critisise creatively if I have a positive alternative to offer, don't keep quiet or avoid conflict if its honest and necessary,don't get drunk so I lose motor skills or "don't remember last night " stuff,am always the driver and don't know how to do accidents. Everything we do is purposeful whether giving attention and consideration in life and enjoying every moment, or being lazy with our brain (some say stupid) and not giving attention/consideration and having so-called accidents. Mistakes are learning opportunities if we use them. Crises are also opportunities to change. Don't panic. The glass is at least half full. everything is good,depends how you use it. etc. Love my soccer and go to the home games. Am a multitasker who loves to party and I'm Very Sensual. Can survive very nicely without electricity and municipal services and have. Love animals. Don't like gluttons who eat cause they depressed or boring or socially disfunctional and they know they're overweight. Am well read but don't like institutionalised learning environments
. An All Rounder, u might say. X
About His Ideal Match
Someone who loves life, follows their dreams, doesn't want me to be what she wants but loves me for what I am, gets sensually excited not possesively jealous, know how to enjoy themselves responsibly while not holding anything back, Someone who's only an adult when they really have to be. not overly concerned with image and whay others think you should do or be. Loves massage,giving and receiving' Loves honesty. Can be trusted to be who they are not who I want them to be,and vice verse. Love vice and verse. Loves humour and can deal with cynical humour, Has no holy cows or absolutes. Likes generally some of the things I like. Understand the difference between girls and boys and don't expect them to behave or want to behave exactly the same on all issues. Likes animals ,kids,cooking, outdoors, sex, sport, music , movis, books, and lots of other stuff. Not an institutionalised conformist please. Only sensual free-thinking people without hang-ups.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Atlantic Seaboard (Green Point), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Xhosa | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 42 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 178cm (5' 10.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent |
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