In His Own Words
About Him
I am a breathing contradiction...
On one hand, I'm a Dreamer filled with fire and on the other, I'm a Realist with a level head. During the day, I have a crazy, fun-loving Sense of Humor and by night, I'm Deep, Quiet and full of Thought. Sometimes I see the glass half full and other times I see it half empty. Who said anyone should limit themselves?
In a general sense, I love life and living in the moment. I enjoy things with feeling, and have an acute sense of appreciation for the smaller things in life. I'm attracted to anything thought provoking: deep conversation; music which actually sounds like the story its telling; movies with a sense of intrique and meaning; but a night on the town filled with fun suits me just fine as well. On a moral note, I live by trust, respect and friendship.
Definition cannot be summarised in so few words, so I'd let the brave dare to draw their own conclusions after chatting to me for awhile.
About His Ideal Match
Does anyone know themselves this well? Let me pretend I do for thes sake of playing along.
For me, an ideal match would be someone who does not play games and if she does, she does it with a sense of intrique. I appreciate those who enjoy life, happiness and the freedom of being themselves, even if they rarely do so for the world. On a more personal note, I prefer someone with fire inside them, a creative spirit and an open mind. It would be awesome if this someone had a crazy sense of humour, an opinion on everything and lived for the "here and now" rather than the future. I enjoy being with someone who doesn't believe emotion is a sign of weakness and that in a sense, knows what she wants in a man. Underneath it all, it would be a bonus if she had something unique to share with me. Attraction would be nice as well ;)
Well, to tell you the truth, surprise me. Everyone changes their opinion about the opposite sex, so why not just be yourself.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (Bellville), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
190cm (6' 2.8") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
21 - 33 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Heavy Metal; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Fantasy; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Cooking; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Cricket; Rugby; Soccer; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fast food; Indian; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Dog(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Honesty: |
Very |
