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44 – Southern Suburbs (Unspecified Suburb), Cape Town, South Africa

alone but not lonely - I don't need you, I WANT you

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Modified: 18 February 2017

Online: Today

About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Southern Suburbs (Unspecified Suburb), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
44
Star Sign:
Capricorn
Height:
155cm (5' 1.0")
Body Type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Hazel
Ethnicity:
Indian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; Dutch
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Yes
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Enough

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
35 - 45
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
160cm (5' 3.0") - 190cm (6' 2.8")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Yes; Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

As I mentioned before, alone but not lonely...I'm not with you because I need you, I'm with you because I WANT you...
OK, here goes, I am a mish-mash of paradoxes and contradictions. I fully exercise the woman's perrogative to change my mind, ever heard the saying, '"Women and cats will do as they please & men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea." ~Robert Heinlein
...and that's a wrap for today...I'm new to the site so this is going to be a work in progress...elaboration will be coming soon...watch this space for more info...patience, my dear, is a virtue...
fyi...A # will precede (random) updates...
# After my initial sign-up I was SO excited about this new adventure I was embarking on, but life got in the way of logging in again until now. In the last 3 months my assistant at work went on maternity leave (without a replacement), I have semi-moved house, I have purchased a car and last but not least I have adopted 2 little kitties...needless to say it has been all but boring...
# Someone just asked if the kitties have satisfied my maternal instincts...Well, while I don't think it's the end of the world if I NEVER have kids, my biological clock IS ticking and if I DO meet the right person soon, I might like to try - or at least have fun trying...
# And yes, there are a lot of 'players' on the site, but aren't there a lot of players 'out there' too???
# I can be the 'Sunshine' in your life if you allow me to be.
# Am I submissive? Only if you are worthy! Just like I will always carry myself in a way that would make you proud to be with me, I expect the same of you, in all aspects.
# If you are looking for a woman with huge 'knockers', I'm not your 'girl', next!!!

About Her Ideal Match

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question, "What kind of a man are you looking for?"
She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking, "Do you really want to know?"
Reluctantly he said, "Yes."
She began to expound, "As a woman of this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man. I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?"
The man looked at her, clearly he thought that she was referring to money.
She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a many who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life." He sat back in his chair, folded his arms and asked her to explain.
She said, "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with non-believers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I am going through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have not problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy. God made women to be a helpmate to a man. I can't help a man if he cannot help himself."
When she finished her spill, she looked at him.
He sat there with a puzzled look on his face.
He said "You're asking a lot."
She replied, "I'm worth a lot."

# Treat me like the princess that I am and I will treat you like the prince (MY PRINCE) that you are!!! I am able to give as good as I get...

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear contacts
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Long; It has its moods
Body Art:
Pierced ears; Navel ring; A tattoo or two
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Sarcastic
Intelligence:
Street Smart
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Wild & Crazy
Valued Qualities:
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Favourite Clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; Sushi; Thai
Music Preferences:
Classical; Country & Western; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; Reggae; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Self-help; Travel
TV Shows:
Cartoons; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Talk shows
Movie Preferences:
Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Sewing; Surfing the Internet
Sports:
Bowling; Bungee jumping; Chess; Ice Skating; Sky diving; White water rafting
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I should have a bed in my office
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Retirement Plans:
Backpacking around the globe
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Honesty:
Extremely