In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm petite in stature yet somewhat buxom. A sassy, sensual, sanguine who is confident, enthusiastic, optimistic, spontaneous, independent, gregarious and when not allergic to the kitchen, can whip up something delicious in a heart beat. Lol. Actually, I'm not a bad cook and I would welcome your culinary skills too. I'm known for "Once off Wonders" when I cook or bake. Simply cause I'm always tweaking the recipe. An Aries trait, I believe! Cook with me over a glass of wine with music in the background...we might end up singing and dancing to the rhythm of a beat. I promise not to tramp on your toes! Double Grin! Ek is nogals rustig maar nie lui nie. Ek hou baie van lees. Kan jy glo dat ek kan Soki? Lol. I'm blessed with inner peace and don't have the need for drama. Amazingly, I enjoy my own company and if I burst out in song or laughter... chances are, there was something wickedly naughty running through my mind. Ooo la la!
PS: I don't nag! I just can't handle it! Such a waste of time & energy. You'll have my full attention if you look me in the eye and just say what's on your mind! No drama, no nagging. I'm easy going but I do have a "look" that shows when your "Queen is not happy"!!
About Her Ideal Match
A man's man, who can wield a power tool as easily as I, a spatula! Socially deft, mature, independent, loyal, loving, honest, spontaneous, clean & clean shaven, confident, reliable, self-sufficient, witty & charming with good ole fashion values without any insecurities. (You're a big boy now...right?) Grin!
Enjoys cuddles, hugs, kisses, the occasional massage and appreciate the little things in life. I love travelling, the theatre, live music, midnight picnics, star gazing and can be ready at a drop of a hat for that. My passport is always up to date ...just in case! Grin!
It would make me swoon if he could sway to the rhythm of a beat.. and if he can croon... Oh Wow! Awesomeness!!! You're my guy! I think that I love you already! Let's dance cheek to cheek in the circle of life! I know you're out there!
Appreciates that we're individuals and as much as I would love us being cocooned in our love nest or basking in the beauty of you or facing life's struggles & strife together, you may occasionally need space to do 'manly' bonding like fishing and golf or gym etc. Appreciate that I would need my space too, to rejuvenate and replenish. Family is rather important, so is honesty and reliability. Harmony is key. And if he snores....no worries, I'll match him and we'll probably freak out the dogs or have them howling in protest!
PS: I'm rather into tactile stimulation. Blush! Grin! Lazy Couch Potatoes can remain right where they are...Married ones, Scammers, Cheaters, Argumentative and Sarcastic ones too! Jealousy gets you no where. Just saying. I'm free spirited. Please don't try to change or find the need to control me and I'll extend the same courtesy to you.
Life is short, don't waste my time and yours if you don't 'fit' my match, graciously move on. I'm not looking for perfection hey. Just someone who can relate to my sometimes quirkiness. Nudge! Nudge! Wink! Wink! Someone who will have my back as I will his.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Roodepoort (Weltevreden Park), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
159cm (5' 2.6") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Current University / College Student | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 71 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") - 189cm (6' 2.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; German; Malay | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; German | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Muslim; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Halaal | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body Art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Archery; Body building; Bowling; Camping; Canoeing; Cricket; Dancesport; Extreme sports; Fishing; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Martial arts; Rowing; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skiing; Snooker; Snorkeling; Squash; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
