inspiredInfidel

40 – Helderberg (Somerset West), Cape Town, South Africa

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Helderberg (Somerset West), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
40
Star Sign:
Pisces
Height:
178cm (5' 10.1")
Body Type:
Stocky
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Grey
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans
Other Languages:
English; German
Religion:
Atheist
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Open to possibilities
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Engineering
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Cape Town Metro; Langebaan; Saldanha; Franschhoek; Paarl; Stellenbosch; Grabouw; Greyton; Hermanus; Kleinmond; Pringle Bay (Western Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
30 - 40
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
157cm (5' 1.8") - 185cm (6' 0.8")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
Marital Status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I:

Try to respect all people until they disrespect me.

Might not get my moral guidance from god(s), but I live my life in such a way that I don't harm others.

Am hard working, but not a slave to the job. Work hard. Play harder! In theory, at least...

Don't have an underdeveloped humour gland; although my sense of humour might be a bit strange at times ;)
Admire people who live life on their own terms and who don't feel the need to be part of the rat-race; ie. if the house in the suburbs with the picket fence and dogs and kiddies and SUV is your dream life, then odds are we won't like each other's company. That said, I don't live in a cave ;)

Like to hang out with a wide variety of people; from hippies to nerds to yuppies but most definitely not meatheads (jocks).
Have a lot of giving left in me :D

Hmm.... think I might have hit the TL;DR threshold here.

PS. If I sound full of !@#$; it happens. I am actually very chill.... just don't like to associate with people who are detrimental to society at large. If the previous sentence hurts your brain; then kindly move along.

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About His Ideal Match

Think I will fill this in a bit later... but for now, someone who has sorted herself out and is comfortable with who she is.
Don't want to limit myself here... too much.
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And so 'later' arrived:

I prefer a woman who is able to have a conversation about anything. At the same time a woman who doesn't mind to be silly together with me every now and then ;) Being good-looking will definitely count in her favour; sorry, but that is just how my brain is wired. A balanced, rounded (personality-wise) person. Someone who will like me for who I am and what I (do and don't) believe in. Not someone who sees me as a long-term improvement project :D If she is somewhat on the naughty side, that would definitely be a big plus ;)

I must throw in one important caveat : I cannot be with anyone who feels superior towards other people or who treats other people with disrespect. It just does not sit well with me.

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional)
Hair Style:
Short
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Obscure
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outspoken; Realistic; Silly
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Favourite Clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; French; Indian; Japanese; Sushi; Thai
Music Preferences:
Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy/Sit-coms; Educational; Sci-Fi
Movie Preferences:
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading
Sports:
Martial arts; Mountain biking; Rock climbing; Weight training
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Watching TV or a movie
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Cooking:
I love it!
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Socially
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Reading:
I enjoy it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Beach house
Religious Attendance:
Doesn't apply
Retirement Plans:
Sipping margaritas on a beach
Politics:
Very Liberal
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Nervous