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Modified: 22 October 2016

Online: Saturday

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Blaauwberg (Parklands), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
41
Star Sign:
Capricorn
Height:
186cm (6' 1.2")
Body Type:
Stocky
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Hazel
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
21 - 35
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 185cm (6' 0.8")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Asian; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

after a long haul on some windingly long roads, I think I'm finally the kind of person I want to be. polite, sincere, painfully brutally honest and the last incurable romantic on the planet. it also helps that I'm hilariously funny.

My interests include surfing (incredibly badly), squash (worse), and muay thai (which I enjoy in a big way). I spend a lot of time in physical pursuits, gymming and so forth, so it would be great if you shared similar interests (or at least a willingness to watch, point and laugh). I also like to collect good colognes, so at the very least I'll be generally pleasant to stand downwind from (scouts honour, promise!). I'm also keeping myself busy by studying for my second degree (communications science this time). when I'm not doing all that, I work as a designer

what? still not convinced?? Sheesh...you're so needy! read on, maybe I can still change your mind

hmm...well, I'm told I give champion foot massages. best of all, I make prizewinning koeksisters (the recipe was a six time winner in Malmesbury, according to my family). as an added contrast, I also write naughty fiction freelance (no judgies!). I'm basically just a nice guy, looking for an equally nice girl in a city where they seem to be scarce.

are there any worthwhile women left in cape town? I don't know so much anymore. but maybe you can prove me wrong. you know you want to. at worst, you'll lose an hour of your life over coffee with a stranger. at best...maybe you'll find someone with an insatiable appetite for kisses that last forever, and cuddling that lasts longer. be warned - if you win my heart, be prepared for unrelenting and absolutely shameless flirtation. I'll make it my mission to make you smile and blush as often as I can per day.

About His Ideal Match

first off, I will not buy you a gift subscription, so don't bother asking. why would I do that if you're only going to use it to speak to other guys? get a job and spend your own money to do that. also, if I can't see your picture, no answer. intelligence is incredibly appealing. I'd love to meet a woman who is soothing on the mind, as well as easy on the eyes. someone kind, considerate & honest without reservation...and hopefully affectionate. I enjoy a woman who pursues what she wants, who is assertive and direct. that said, be warned I am a little old fashioned, and like to court a woman...I'm looking to fall head over heels for someone, and find an attraction that isn't just skin deep. a warm and honest heart will thaw mine. and if you do that, I'll move mountains to make you happy. preferably small ones...too much heavy lifting probably won't be too good for me. I'm looking for miss right, not miss right now. the kind of woman who treats me and others with courtesy, manners and respect, not play games and string people along. I know what I want, and will not rest till I find it. if you're looking for a guy who will be arm candy for you to show off to friends, I am not for you. if you're looking for a guy you can string along and then say "sorry, but I'm not ready for a relationship" or "I'm confused", again, not your guy (we're here to meet people, after all). If you watch vampire movies where the cast glitters or spends most of their time staring slack jawed into space, keep walking. however, if you're the kind of woman who is both beautiful inside and out, with a wonderfully wicked sense of humour, who is serious about having a decent guy in their life, I'm definitely the kind of guy you're looking for. if you're the kind of girl who thinks kisses should go on for ever (because time stands still when a kiss is shared), I'd definitely enjoy meeting you for coffee sometime.

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
None / not applicable
Body Hair:
Smooth
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Fashion Sense:
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short
Body Art:
Several tattoos
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Sexiness
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Green
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rock; World
Books:
Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Cartoons; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi
Movie Preferences:
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Horror; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Computer & video games; Meditation; Surfing the Internet; Yoga
Sports:
Field Hockey; Martial arts; Squash; Surfing
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Watching TV or a movie
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
Not at all
Reading:
I enjoy it
Likes & Dislikes
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s)
Turn-offs:
Power
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Get promoted
Dream Home:
Beach house
Religious Attendance:
Doesn't apply
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Politics:
Moderate
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Jaded