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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Her

Country of Origin:
Germany
Location:
City Bowl (Unspecified Suburb), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
37
Star Sign:
Leo
Height:
162cm (5' 3.8")
Body Type:
Curvaceous
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Ask me later
Home Language:
Ask me later
Other Languages:
French; German; Spanish; Xhosa
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Yes
Daily Diet:
Vegetarian
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Enough

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
35 - 40
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
168cm (5' 6.1") - 191cm (6' 3.2")
Body Type:
Average; Athletic; Stocky
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
Yes; Maybe
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Some University / College; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

Today, I got a late Christmas gift from one of my friends. It's a cook book, which captures recipes and the lives of the author's friends from all the over world. It is a beautiful book with great looking foods but moreover it reflects through its pictures how to enjoy life. While I was browsing through the book I thought to myself:'This is what I want, enjoy life to the fullest with all senses and most importantly with people that are close to me.'
I then thought about this online dating side and decided to just put my thoughts out there because that is who I am. I am actively using this site for about a week. I found it very interesting to read through the profiles and think about the effectiveness of this way of dating. It is weird how I 'looked' out for guys: sometimes I made a guy my favorite because his words made me smile or his write up touched me, sometimes, I just added one because I thought it is a good match or I liked the picture and at the same time, I sometimes 'deleted' fans for the same reasons. It sometimes feels like online shopping for a person. I have decided, this is definitely not my favorite type of dating but it is an interesting one, to have the 'tick' list checked out before checking out the person. I haven't been very convincing neither really putting myself out there on the site. I tried to be cautious and not giving away to much of myself.
I guess most people (including myself) would rather experience relationship like a in Hollywood movies, see someone, the big sparkle explodes and it is love forever after. I it can happen this way but it is rather the exception than reality. I must say in the last months, I have been quite cynical about guys and dating, questioning the reason and sense behind people trying to find their 'one and only' and once one is in a relationship one longs back to be single.
Luckily I had some great encounters, traveled and experienced a couple of great and painful things during 2010 and I have to say, my cynicism has faded I'm back in the game.

About Her Ideal Match

As I said above, I want to enjoy life. I want to find a person that is comfortable with me and accepts me for who I am and I would love to be able to do the same. I want to have fun and really good conversations. I want both of us continue to have our own lives and friends (a bit like an own garden) and to then find a little spot where we could build up a joint 'garden' reminding each other to care each for the individual gardens and the joint garden with the same energy and effort.

I am tired of guys who have not figures out who they are and what they want in life and who project their issues onto me. I am also tired of playing games - ('guys hunt for woman so I have to not be too forthcoming or outgoing because then the availability of a woman turns a guy off' blablala) I just want to be me. I want to be able to be a successful and strong woman that I am without the guy having self doubts and self-esteem issues. I would like to find a single guy who appreciates faithfulness and had his share of women, sex etc so that he can comfortably enjoy our togetherness without feeling the need to still explore how far he can get with the sexy work colleague or the flirtageous neighbour. Don't get me wrong, I know that life continuous and that you and me will meet other people along the way, but ultimately I expect the person to be mature enough to not follow each flirt or temptation into the closest bed. So those are the things I
don't want' and the things I want is to basically meet someone and see if we get along or not.

This is all I had in my mind today and thought I should share it. This is basically me besides the passionate, sensual woman with an amazing smile, great sense of self, satisfied with her life, her friends and who she is.

If you are interested, drop me a line.

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Long
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic
Valued Qualities:
Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Yellow
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; Reggae; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Romance; Self-help
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance
Interests:
Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing poetry; Yoga
Sports:
Badminton; Camping; Running; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time Online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I mostly use my TV for news or sport
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Cat(s)
The Deep Stuff
Honesty:
Very