In Her Own Words
About Her
I march to the beat of my own drum, usually take the path less traveled - it's the one less littered, and I make the rules up as I go along, just so I can break them!!! Lol. I'm considdered, by those who know, me to be soemwhat eccentric, extremely funny and loyal to the core. I can discuss Einsteins' theory of relativity with as much ease as I can decline Latin verbs, but I'd rather climb inside your mind and see what makes you tick. I'd rather spend my time figuring out what turns you on and blows your senses (and putting the knowledge to good use, lol) than discussing esoteric philosophies of life and the meaning thereof. I want tot get to know the real you, when the shield of intellect has been stripped away and only the raw essence remains.
I have laughed, I have loved and I have grieved. I have lived the dark night of the soul and I have healed. My soul is keening for it's mate.
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal match? A million people I've known in my life time, all rolled into one. This isn't quantifiable by adjectives alone. You're the quintessence of everything I can't tear myself away from when self preservation is sounding the warning bells, you're throwing caution to the wind, and feeling alive. You're a meeting of minds that cleave together. You're the gentleness of a feather along my spine and the strength of Hercules. You're teaching me to fly when I don't believe in my wings. You are the eroticism that races my pulses and takes prisoner my free will. You're the sensuality of a tactile nature. You are the genius that engages my mind and the and the x factor that blows it. You are compassion,humour, mystery and generosity of spirit. You are the other half of me - the key to my lock, my soul mate. I know I need you, I just don't know where to find you.
I would love for you to exist in my realm, long enough to see weather we could drag ouselves away from the promise of what might be, when the reality of what must intrudes.
What Her Friends Say
Thalula hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Vryheid, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; French; Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Food Services | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
42 - 58 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") - 194cm (6' 4.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Painting; Sculpting; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Horse Riding; Polo; Shooting; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Playing with my pet |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Honesty: |
Extremely |