In His Own Words
About Him
So, my previous relationship lasted many years, and we finally decided to go our separate ways.
I feel I have learned the ropes to manage a successful relationship and learned what love is about and all those fundamental ingredients like compassion, honesty, respect, tolerance and especially faithfulness etc.
I learned that a relationship is not intended to last if it requires full time maintenance just to 'survive', but that a little bit of effort from both sides can make a good relationship great, especially if it is build on a solid friendship.
It has been more than a year since the breakup, I have moved on with my life, and finally feel ready to meet new people and hopefully start a new relationship. I know how to treat a girl, know how to give and love unconditionally, know what irritates girls and finally now I know what I want. I want a clean slate, someone that is willing to give, and appreciate when given. I am not too complicated when it comes to everyday things and very easy to live with. I know what I want in life and almost exactly how to achieve it. I am halfway there, yet I feel I can not deliver my full potential in my life and career without the support from a loved one. I work very hard, but need someone to go home to, someone I can care for and treat like a princess, someone to be my better half. I want to settle down and start enjoying the finer things in life. I recently came to the realization that financially stability is useless without someone to share the comforts with.
Lastly, and probably most importantly, I would love to find someone that truly believes that there is some purpose and greater meaning to what we call life. I can honestly not say that I know where we came from, but I am willing to believe.
My mind, heart and soul is open, ready to be filled, and I want to meet someone that will join me on my journey to spiritual enlightenment.
If you think you might be that one, please contact me and lets get to know each other. Life is too short to spend it alone !!
About His Ideal Match
Smart, beautiful, independent, determined, hard working, loving, creative and strive to be successful in everything she does. Must love animals and have a general healthy lifestyle.
I just love a good sense of humor.
Someone with goals and ambitions when it comes to friends, family, hobbies, career etc.
Not too stubborn and willing to learn new things.
Must sometimes be impulsive and not take life too seriously, yet she should not make stupid uncalculated risks if there is a possibility that the consequences / damage is permanent, or if her actions can harm others.
She must be able to forgive, forget and learn from mistakes.
Even though I prefer someone that is moderately athletic, I believe attractiveness comes from within, as long as you have self respect and willing to look in the mirror and know that you are taking care of the body that was given to you.
I don't like a girl that simply accepts everything as it is, she must have and defend her own opinion (at least until she is proven wrong)
She must not just accept all my mistakes, but be able to give positive criticism and help me to be a better person. I always try to be a better person in everything I do, but sometimes I cannot see the things that bother other people. Similarly I would also not be able to simply accept all your short comings. I know nobody is perfect, neither am I, but it is of utmost importance that one is willing to see one's shortcomings and be willing to try to improve where possible.
If you conform to at least 80% of the above, we might just end up getting married :-)
If not, but you willing to give it a go, worst case scenario we might still end up being good friends...
That's it, until I hear from you, or if not, I wish you all the best in finding what you are looking for.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton (Douglasdale), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Centurion; Pretoria; Benoni; Boksburg; Kempton Park; Edenvale; Krugersdorp; Midrand; Randburg; Roodepoort; Sandton; Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
28 - 38 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Silver |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; History; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Romance |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Business news; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gambling; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Knitting; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Archery; Athletics; Backgammon; Baseball; Bowling; Boxing; Bungee jumping; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Cycling; Extreme sports; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Golf; Horse Riding; Hunting; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Shooting; Sky diving; Snooker; Squash; Surf skiing/kayaking; Table Tennis; Tennis; Weight training; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fast food; French; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Playing with my pet |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
