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Sleepless_in_Pta

46 – Pretoria (Faerie Glen), Gauteng, South Africa

Voor ek heeltemal grys is, vat 'n kans en leer my ken! Shrek soek sy Fiona! xoxox

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Modified: 23 January 2017

Online: Friday

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Pretoria (Faerie Glen), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
46
Star Sign:
Taurus
Height:
180cm (5' 10.9")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Light Brown
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans
Other Languages:
English; German
Religion:
Christian / Other
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Legal
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
21 - 43
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
145cm (4' 9.1") - 183cm (6' 0.0")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; White; Other
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Romanian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Other
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; German; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Romanian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish
Religion:
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Ek het 'n artikel gelees oor 'n ou wat geskei is na 16 jaar en die lesse wat hy geleer het...dit is waarna ek streef wanneer ek eendag so gelukkig is om my deksel te vind! (verkorte weergawe)
1) Never stop courting.
Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted.
2) PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART.
Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance.
3) FALL IN LOVE OVER and OVER again.
SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don't take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.
4) ALWAYS SEE THE BEST in her.
Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged.
5) IT'S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE OR FIX HER...
Your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing.
6) TAKE FULL ACCOUNTABILITY for your own emotions:
You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.
7) NEVER BLAME your wife If YOU get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility.
8) Allow your woman to JUST BE.
When she's sad or upset, it's not your job to fix it, it's your job to HOLD HER and let her know it's ok.
9) BE SILLY
Don't take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh. Laughter makes everything else easier.
10) FILL HER SOUL EVERYDAY
Learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and CHERISHED.
11) BE PRESENT
Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul.
12) BE WILLING TO TAKE HER SEXUALLY.
To carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength to the deepest levels of her soul.
13) DON'T BE AN IDIOT.
And don't be afraid of being one either. You will make mistakes and so will she.

About His Ideal Match

If you are kind hearted, honest and love to cuddle... If you like to be spoiled, treated like a princess......then I'm your guy!

I am looking for someone to be my best friend, my soulmate, my lover, my partner, my everything! Yes, I am a hopeless romantic!

Natuurlik moet daar 'n konneksie ook wees, op intellektuele, emosionele en fisieke vlak! Daar moet sparks wees! Maar vriendskap is baie belangrik....sonder vriendskap kan 'n romantiese verhouding nie hou nie!

xxx

Vervolg...
14) GIVE HER SPACE
Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids.
15) BE VULNERABLE
Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.
16) BE FULLY TRANSPARENT
If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING.
17) NEVER STOP GROWING TOGETHER
The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool.
18) DON'T WORRY ABOUT MONEY.
Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it.
19) FORGIVE IMMEDIATELY and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past.
20) ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE.
In the end, this is the only advice you need. Love will always endure.

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Average
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Street Smart
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Shy; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; French; Italian; South African
Music Preferences:
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; Rock
Books:
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Mystery
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Comedy/Sit-coms; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Sport
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet
Sports:
Chess; Cricket; Darts; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Hockey; Pool; Rugby; Snooker; Squash; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
There're several shows I watch regularly
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Power; Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Dream Home:
Beach house
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Retirement Plans:
Sipping margaritas on a beach
Politics:
Liberal
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Hopeful