In Her Own Words
About Her
I am independant and tolerant. Very high energy but do not expect other people to entertain me. I have a full and interesting life and find other people fascinating. If it is possible to have no baggage in this day and age, then I have as little as possible and prefer not to be repeatedly weighed down by other people's issues. I am happy to listen but quickly become tired of negativity and complaints about life. I am not looking for heavy, drama filled relationships and I think life should be light and fun. I am quick to smile and slow to anger altho' I cannot be bothered with people who are cruel or dismissive. I enjoy people who are unafraid to speak directly. Good conversation is therefore important to me. I am interested in 'why', rather than 'what'. I am very active. I cycle and dance, but time spent in stimulating conversation is very appealing, as is the occasional veg-out watching movies. I love my life and consequently, am in no rush to find "the one'. Having said that, while I may be slow to settle, once I have found what I like, I will put energy and effort into making it worthwhile to be with me.
About Her Ideal Match
A man who is comfortable with words and communication. Preferably not materialistic. I enjoy outspoken people who are unafraid to say what they think, without being insensitive or tactless. I like to be with people who have their own interests and hobbies and who are ok about me having mine. Intelligent conversation appreciated but so is time spent saying nothing. I enjoy people who are fascinated with all aspects of life and who live life seriously without taking life seriously. A sense of humour would be wonderful. An added dimension would be someone who likes to dance although involvement in any active sport is good. Someone who is happy to take time to develop a friendship as a grounding for a relationship.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Randburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
49 - 62 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") - 194cm (6' 4.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; French; Italian | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality Traits: |
Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Latin; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Romance |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Cycling; Mountain biking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
Less than once a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
