In Her Own Words
About Her
I am a single woman & a mom; I'm an easy-going, laid back but yet focused kind of person. In my personal life, I do not want to be the one driving the relationship. I like to have the space to just be... I am very affectionate, love to talk and laugh. Quite an extrovert but with some reservation. I do take some time before I warm to people but when I get going, there is no stopping me. I am a very loyal friend and partner. Integrity and loyalty are high on my list. Iam a feminine woman...who is also gentle in spirit and who has a nurturing heart. I know that might sound like an oxymoron but it best describes me. I love transparency...meaning when things are clear. I love it when people are direct...of course with wisdom! I often have an inquiring mind...I love to think! I am approachable and love communication I enjoy listening to people. I believe everybody has an interesting story to tell that I can always learn something from; my heart's desire is to always remain teachable. I believe one must always remain true to oneself in order to truly fulfill the purpose of oneself. I went schooling in Cape Town - loved every minute of it but for now, it is enough of a challenge helping my daughter with her school assignments! Nevertheless, as for the school of life....no option but to attend! Some of my personal goals, see my daughter develop into the bold woman who will conquer her personal giants, conquer some of my own. I've learnt that I must not give other people permission to change who I am, I've learnt not to make someone a priority if I 'am only but an option. I am just a real, grounded woman.I'm always up for a night of camping out under the stars!! When I'm not out with my friends on a Friday night, I love curling up under the covers and watching a scary movie (any suggestions?)!!
About Her Ideal Match
I desire a person who is real and down to earth...generally he has a bit of life experience behind him...as these experiences have molded him into a man of character who is compassionate, trustworthy, faithful, kind, honest and humble. I would like a man that I can admire and respect. He must be a man with vision and a good decision maker.(this makes submission so much easier I think)
I like it when a man is creative, he enjoys the arts in any form...music, photography, writing etc.....he is somewhat sporty....even if he enjoys just watching sport.....young at heart and has a boyishness about him....a communicator(meaning he doesn't have to be loud but very present....communicate and express himself well). He enjoys children and wants to constantly grow! He must love people and enjoy his own company. A man who can look past himself, a man of integrity, ambition, substance and do random acts of kindness a man of faith a man who can hold my hand through any given situation a man who loves listening to me and who allows me the space to just be me.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl (Unspecified Suburb), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
187cm (6' 1.6") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Coloured | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Muslim | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Halaal | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 52 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Muslim; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Hope; Humour |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Electronic Dance Music; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Educational |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Interests: |
Board games; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Indian; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
What's work? |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
