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56 – Johannesburg (Suideroord), Gauteng, South Africa

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Johannesburg (Suideroord), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
56
Star Sign:
Aries
Height:
155cm (5' 1.0")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Ask me later
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; English
Religion:
Christian / Protestant
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Ask me later
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Legal
Income:
Solvent

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Anywhere in the United Kingdom
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
45 - 55
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
175cm (5' 8.9") - 190cm (6' 2.8")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Christian / Catholic
Marital Status:
Never Married
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

Well, if you don't want to get to know me, then you may never know what you're missing! I am balanced, outgoing, generous, a very good friend to all my friends, believe in two-way communication, have a good sense of humour, am open to new challenges in life and not afraid to live. I am mostly very positive but do have my down days too. I am also fun loving, love dancing, however lack the oppertunity these days whilst not having anyone to go with, most of the time. When I do get the chance, it is mostly with my daughter's friends as my friends are just not up for going out any more. I also love going to most types of motor racing and motor shows and love programs such as Top Gear Extra. I also love a lot of British programs relating to property development and would love to be doing that myself but not in SA - it will have to be in the UK - if the opportunity ever arises! I love reading, building puzzles, watching most of British comedy and my favourite channels are BBC Prime and The Home Channel. I am not one of those women who needs to be wined and dined to be impressed (I do not drink wine - please remember!). I don't think it is romantic for a first date to have a meal with a stranger as I may be put off by his eating habits or he may be put off by mine (LOL). I will much rather go out dancing or to a car racing event, even an antique flea market or to some antique shops. Buying me flowers also does not impress me as I hate the flowers to die and be all messy - and forget about artificial flowers. I want to play golf before I get too old - played twice before (my golf clubs and other gear is gathering dust now). I love walking on the beach in the late afternoon or early morning when I am by the sea. I am romantic and can be bubbly or quiet depending on the circumstances. My favourite holiday is in the UK - and not in another city or town every other day. I love the British countryside and would ideally love to live and get old in the UK, near the seaside if possible.

About Her Ideal Match

My ideal man should have similar (or a variety) of interests, close to mine. If he also wants to retire in the UK countryside it will be a big bonus. If our interests are not all the same, I am flexible. I may be interested in some of his interests but I am sure that in life, today, one won't easily find someone who shares all your interests. Besides, one needs to have time on your own sometimes, so therefore you should have some interestes that are not shared by both parties. He may be into watching and/or playing sport but not excessively. I am not interested to meet men who will continuously be on the Internet or have other irritating habits/addictions or do anything excessively - i.e. gambling, drinking, playing computer or TV games, are into pornography etc. etc. etc. - even cracking his knuckles! Extreme behaviour also includes too much sport - in a way that it takes over his (and our lives). If we get into a serious relationship then he should not be sleeping on the sofa (almost permanently). It is a big turn-off and causes a lot of trouble in relationships causing women to feel unwanted. I also don't want a man who treats me well when we first meet and later on I find out that he is not what he appeared to be. What you see is what you get - that is how I want someone to be as that is how I am. I don't want a short, overweight man and if you have a clean shaved head - stay away. If you have a beard - also stay away. I don't mind someone smoking of drinking but do not allow anyone to smoke in my house or car and I don't drink at home - only when I go out. If you meet some of my requirements but not all, don't fear - let me be the one who decides. The main things I feel very strong about, is being very overweight, short men, clean shaved heads, men with beards and any excessive behaviour.

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Fashion Sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Long
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intellectually Challenged
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Green
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
Attending a sporting event; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Cuisine:
Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Thai
Books:
Best-sellers; Fiction; History; Romance
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; News; Reality shows; Soap operas
Movie Preferences:
Comedy; Drama; Romance
Interests:
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sewing; Shopping; Singing; Writing books
Sports:
Athletics; Badminton; Bowling; Dancesport; Golf; Motorsport; Running; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
Movie Frequency:
Never
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Religious Attendance:
Once a week
Retirement Plans:
Sailing the seven seas
Honesty:
Very