In His Own Words
About Him
I am currently out of the country but will be back early 2010. It was quite a challenge and culture shock the first time out here in SA but this time I am determined to make SA home. I am currently seeking permanent residency if you have any ideas and insights as to how to speed things up I am open to them. My ulitmate goad is to get married. I am looking for that beautiful confident pure African Nubian QUEEN (that's a mouthful!). Are you the one? If so, then you need to get to know me.
I'm serious. I've done it all in the 10+ years I've been single. I'm REALLY ripe and ready for a commitment with just YOU sweetie. I've got a lot of "bad boy" in me at all the right times. I've also a "nice guy" spirit in me at all the right times. If you are into this combination than I am the man for you for I have learned to balance the two and more. I am very responsible and fun loving individual. I also know how to treat a woman in every way possible. I love the outdoors as I do the indoors. I love having fun, it is what life is all about. I would do just about anything for the very first time in order to learn. I love taking risks and living at the edge of discovering new and adventurous moments. I love free spirited woman that know what she wants, loves life and goes out to do it.
My prime goal is to establish a small engineering firm in South Africa with some of the creative entrepreneurs there. That is my next challenge and I need that special woman that is up to the challenge. She would be an asset to this endeavor as I would support her in her in achieving her dreams. Better still it would be fabulous if we can both do something together... Seriously, I love what I do and I am determined beyond measure to succeed in whatever I set out to do, inlcuding getting you. Sound like a plan? Do you want to give this a try? Then let's do it!
About His Ideal Match
You should be comfortable with who you are. Financially stable, an independent woman of substance. Carefree and intelligent individual who is not afraid to speak her mind and be challenged to greater heights. Loves both the outdoors as well as indoors and of course love to experiment with life. If you love cooking that is a great plus, I will help around the kitchen but you must love to eat my barbeque (braii) which I love doing over the weekends. I forgot to mention, I love entertaining friends and relatives every so often and on occasions such as holidays.
One other thing, you just have to be natural, be yourself, if we click I will love you just the way you are!!! I think we are all beautiful in one way other, so the question as whether you are attactive or drop dead gorgeous is a matter of individual taste. Also let us at least have a photograph of you and be up to date in our subscription, otherwise it is difficult to communicate. Who knows you or I might be the one that we have been looking for all our life.... Wouldn't you hate to lose that opportunity because we could not communicate?
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Randburg (Sundowner), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Other | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
148cm (4' 10.3") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Technical Diploma; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I have a moustache |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness; I have a terminal illness |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A gate-crasher |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Jazz; New Age; R&B / Soul; Reggae |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Crime; Religious; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
It's a weekly ritual |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Gardening; Investing; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Baseball; Basketball; Darts; Hiking; Mountain biking; Pool; Running; Snooker; Snorkeling; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; French; Indian; Italian; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out 7 days a week |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
