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DiscerningDreamer

66 – Sedgefield (Unspecified Suburb), Western Cape, South Africa

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Online: Wednesday

Modified: A week ago

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About Him

Country of Origin:
Zimbabwe
Location:
Sedgefield (Unspecified Suburb), Western Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
66
Star Sign:
Leo
Height:
177cm (5' 9.7")
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Balding
Eye Colour:
Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Partnered
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
57 - 68
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
160cm (5' 3.0") - 176cm (5' 9.3")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Moderately important
Ethnicity:
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Born in Zim I now live in QLD Australia. I have a wide range of interests, esp politics, world affairs and business. Am a person who believes strongly in Human Rights, justice and fairness.
I have experienced a varied life and have travelled widely (often hitch-hiking) throughout Southern Africa,NZ & Oz, where i have my base. Also lived/worked in several third world and European countries.
Apart from owning a couple of houses, I never have a huge amount of money, but always seem to obtain the things I need. I spend my money on travelling and exploring, rather than material stuff.
I don't watch much TV. I much prefer quick-witted banter and vibrant debate... and esp sharing ideas. I WANT someone with opinions about issues.
Enjoy the excitement at major horse races . Appreciate good food and do like the cooking.
Looking to lose about 10kg but am fit&healthy. Love long (fast) walks esp hiking in bush and mountains.
Am social, a bit extrovert and find spontaniety appealing.
My heroes include Orwell, Gandhi, Scott(Antartic) and political prisoners. Support Amnesty International. I admire people who have the courage to speak out for issues they believe in, often putting themselves at severe risk. Am always skeptical but can be convinced by a good argument.
You must be intelligent along with a strong sense of fun,laughter,love of conversation, love of touch, KISSING and exploring.
I am in a solid,loving, happy relationship, and live with my partner. We are extremely affectionate, but post menopause she has lost her libido. I don't blame her at all, but it is very frustrating. I feel some of my best years slipping away. She knows/understands why I have started looking for a like-minded (overseas) soul to flirt with, and she wants me to stay virile. i.e a long distance pen-pal to share deeper stuff with. eg discuss what to expect in relationships esp when in our sixties.

I'm not going to make dozens of contacts and waste everyone's time. If the right person reads this we'll have a connection.

About His Ideal Match

I wrote a heck of a lot in my profile as I've tried to be open and transparent and avoid misunderstanding. Obviously, it's not what most readers are looking for.

re my 'ideal match'... here goes:
Intelligent, well-educated, sensitive, considerate, affectionate and trustworthy. Must love kissing and touching. Can see the irony/absurdity of life/situations. Quick witted, young-at-heart, widely read and willing to debate issues, esp sharing ideas about what to expect when in our sixties. eg are we realistic, or clinging to a semi-fictional idealist notion? Do you feel time slips by and you've not made the most of it?

An interest in world affairs, in business, wildlife, birdlife, and travelling would make a fine companion. I like to snorkel/spearfish and enjoy bush/mountain hiking. Do you?

Please read my profile right through so we are on same page. This is a first time for me and whilst my partner is aware I'm wanting to flirt, she has ZERO interest/desire in who that person is, provided it remains long distance. I'm looking for subtle, clever, naughty flirting, with zero porn. Something fun, interesting and safe for both parties.

Looking for someone who also feels that time slips by so rapidly, and is willing to try something new, whilst based at home.
MUST be able to laugh with me, at me, and at herself. Must love kissing and more.... or have i said that?

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
It's a distant memory
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Facial Hair:
I have a full beard
Body Hair:
Average
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness
Fashion Sense:
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics)
Leisure & Entertainment
Reading:
I love it
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got brothers
Family Closeness:
We're average
Willing to Relocate:
Not at all
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Turn-ons:
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
The Deep Stuff
Religious Attendance:
Never
Politics:
Liberal
Retirement Plans:
Backpacking around the globe
Honesty:
Extremely