In Her Own Words
About Her
🐝 “Just Bee”
A Poem of Life by the Queen Bee
I am the Queen Bee of my own becoming,
Crowned not by gold, but by grace.
Rooted in the Word, I seek first His Kingdom—
His righteousness, my resting place.
I don’t strive—I surrender.
I don’t push—I plant.
Obedience over sacrifice,
God’s whisper over the world’s chant.
I decode His love letter,
In pages stained with light,
Where Kingdom keys are hidden
In plain and sacred sight.
I’ve found a few—just enough
To start the sacred hive.
So I sow—gently, daily—
And trust the seeds will thrive.
I live by truth, not trend.
By Spirit, not by speed.
I don’t need to do— I just need to bee.
Authentic. Honest. Freed.
I walk in love, Live in abundance,
Choose faith over fear.
And as I renew my mind each day,
His whisper grows more clear.
I’m not here to impress,
But to invite.
To gather the worker bees,
And lead them toward the Light.
If you’re tired of striving,
Of masks and all the noise— Come closer.
Be still. And just bee —
There’s honey in my voice.
About Her Ideal Match
5 Things I’m Looking for in a Man (From a Queen’s Perspective)
1. The Gentle Craftsman
He understands that love isn’t something to fix—it’s something to feel.
He works with soft hands and a strong heart.
He listens before he speaks.
He’s emotionally aware, kind with his words, and careful with a woman’s heart.
He builds connection, not control.
2. The King Beside Me
He leads without overpowering.
He respects my voice and values my strength.
He sees me as his equal—his Queen—not someone to dominate, but someone to build a Kingdom with.
He walks with confidence, not superiority, and we rise higher together.
3. The Safe Space
He makes me feel emotionally safe.
He doesn’t silence my story or dismiss my scars—he honors them.
He listens with compassion, speaks with care, and shows me that what matters to me… matters to him.
With him, I don’t have to shrink. I can just be.
4. The Humble Leader
He serves with sincerity, not performance.
He treats everyone with dignity—no matter their status.
His kindness is quiet, his generosity real, and his strength lies in his humility.
He doesn’t need applause to be good. He just is.
5. The Evolving Man
He is open. Curious. Willing to grow.
He doesn’t hide behind “this is just how I am.”
He reflects, adapts, and leans into change—even when it’s uncomfortable.
Because he knows true maturity is about progress, not perfection.
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I’m not looking for a man who has it all together.
I’m looking for a man who is together enough to keep becoming.
A man who loves deeply, grows constantly, and leads with grace.
That’s a man worthy of a Queen.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Margate, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Margate (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White; Other; Balding | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Medical / Dental; Retired; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Shy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Reggae |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Movie Channels; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Reading; Singing; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Badminton; Basketball; Cycling; Dancesport; Extreme sports; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Gymnastics; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Sailing; Scuba diving; Skiing; Sky diving; Snowboarding; Soccer; Squash; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Triathlon; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |