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Modified: More than 6 months ago

Online: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Grahamstown, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
51
Star Sign:
Capricorn
Height:
4cm (0' 1.6")
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Greying
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Indian
Home Language:
Ask me later
Other Languages:
English
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Friends; Open to possibilities
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Ask me later
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Medical / Dental
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
28 - 45
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
160cm (5' 3.0") - 179cm (5' 10.5")
Body Type:
Average; A few extra pounds; Large; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black
Eye Colour:
Black; Brown; Green; Hazel
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English; Hindi; Ndebele; Sepedi; Sesotho; Swati; Tamil; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married; Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I am a happy, balanced person. I have worked through all of my issues.I work in an academic environment and I love my job People who are with me generally laugh a lot (hopefully not at me all the time).I make people feel good about themselves. I have a huge collection of trivia and essentially meaningless information, so I am quite useful on long car journeys and cold winter nights.

I often cheat during board games, and am very bitter when my completely transparent ploys and plots are discovered. I also believe with absolute conviction, every week, that I will win the lotto, and I am shattered when I don't. I'm not really naive - I just refuse to buy into the universal description of reality.

I am an excellent cook, and love entertaining. My many years at school have left me with an ability to improvise with the most basic ingredients
I also enjoy camping. I have a camping bus which I use as often as possible - what could be finer than a warm day, a cold beer, a loving partner, and the great outdoors - hmmm - maybe a cold day, a warm partner, and a loving beer :-)

Beer is one of my favorite things in the whole world - it is God's way of showing us that he loves us and that he wants us to be happy

I have strong views on essential topics like abortion, the death penalty and the correct way to drink tequilas.

I grew up in a very poor community, and I paid my own way through university. It taught the value of the really important things in life - there are friends who carried me through the darkest hours. As a result, I am a soft touch for anyone who is down on their luck. If you're the wealthy silver spoon type, I'm sorry - we probably don't have so much in common, and you will probably lose your patience with me - you see - helping people turns me on.

I love myself unashamedly - I don't have a feminine side - that's for girls. Real men drink beer, and bark, and howl at the moon, sometimes...

Come share my world...

Regards,

Mike

About His Ideal Match

I am hoping to meet a lively chatterbox who is is love with Life, and passionate about important issues.

I see her as as a friend and companion, someone who is willing to give of herself emotionally and is willing to commit.

I would do anything for someone who is kind-hearted and unselfish, and truly believe that we are all part of one large family.

I would respect her having strong views, and would want to spend happy hours debating these with her.

I am not looking for a quick fix, or for a one night stand - I would rather make a good friend with whom I can communicate than to waste time acquiring a brief fling that leaves us both feeling unfulfilled and rejected.

It is essential that she is a strong person. She must be secure within herself, and our partnership should be about bringing out the best qualities in each other. The end point will be that we both become more successful at Life (the real things like Love, and Honesty, and Friendship, and Sharing) together, than if we were alone - I would like to say synergy, but that is such a pretentious buzzword nowadays.

Someone who knows where our communities have come from, and who appreciates the struggle it took to arrive here - not just intellectually, but personally, and emotionally as well.

Someone who is physical and emotional in their affections - not sex - but a deep desire to be with you partner, and to be cherished and to cherish - let's hold hands when we drive, let's delight each other with backrubs, or surprise coffees, let's be friends who love to love.

Is someone out there listening...

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short; Well-behaved
Body Art:
Pierced ears
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Orange
Favourite Clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; Greek; Indian; Thai; Vietnamese
Music Preferences:
Folk; Jazz; R&B / Soul
Books:
Fiction; Non-fiction
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Cartoons
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics
Interests:
Cooking; Making Music; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Writing books
Sports:
Fishing; Golf; Volleyball
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time Online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I love it!
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Bored to death
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Reading:
There's nothing better
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Dancing; Flirting; Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Religious Attendance:
Doesn't apply
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Politics:
Very Liberal
Honesty:
Extremely