In His Own Words
About Him
I am honest and without guile.
My integrity and lack of deception is my way of life and beyond question .
A real pity some times ???????
I have done what most people only dream of doing or read in books.
So exciting and memorable that I would willingly do them all again.
T shirt, bullet holes and scars.
I move into exciting times and places.
To be faced with the same excitement and nervousness of the First Journey.
Brave enough to join me ?
Writing a book about the places I've been to, the people I've met and those interesting times.
No intention of hurting anyone in this book, just some lessons to show others.
People are basically good.
I prefer Jung to Freud and Nietzsche floats around on the edges .
Cool people are those that look after each other.
These are 'friends' in the true sense of the word.
Love the world of arts and culture.
Really love the Impressionists and Surrealists.
Yes I can cook !
Do it better with really ' Good Company ' and some of the Big Red to soothe the throat.
Live just outside a secure estate in Tinley Manor with my dog 'Chop'.
Do not enjoy the crowds of a rugby stadium and tiny little figures scurrying down there on a patch of green stuff.
The game is better on TV and the replays show it all .
Lived 7 years in Rhodesia .2 years in Namibia. 2 in Zambia.
Been on extensive trips to Mozambique and Angola.
Short trips to Swaziland, Botswana, Malawi, Tanzania and DRC.
Spent plenty of time in the 'Big Valleys' ( Zambezi and Luangwa )
About His Ideal Match
IT IS NOT THE COVER OF THE BOOK THAT TELLS THE STORY, BUT THE WRITTEN WORD WITHIN.
Really want to meet a Lady !
I do not demand the following but they would be nice to have :-
Loving. Affectionate.
Gentle but Strong Willed !!
Loyal.
Kind.
Honest.
Reliable ??
Love and Respect Yourself.
Reasonably Fit and Healthy and Self motivated.
Fun with a 'wicked' sense of humour.
Give and take space when needed.
Believe in Hobbits, Fairies, Easter Bunny, Father Christmas and Leprechauns.
Open minded to understand spiritual 'Things'.'Crystal Power' and the 'Universe'.
Well read with some general knowledge.
Honestly enjoy the outdoors - bush and sea.
Quick to see those that don't.
Accept my children - 2 Boys & 1 Girl plus my dog 'Chop' ( German Shepherd )
Chop who softened the hearts of Ladies has gone to catch the butterflies in the BIG field.
The new guy on the block is Rox ( German Shepherd )
Please accept and understand the work I do and how I do it.
Don't use the ' need space ' excuse, if you mean other things.
'One Man' woman in a relationship.
The ' DATE ' is 'NOT' as important as 'Did we enjoy each others company and should we do it again ???'.
Lies and deceit are breaches of faith and trust.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
'Baggage' ladies play open cards.
'Schitzos" How bad is it. Handle most cases.
Borderline Personality Disorder can be rationalised but difficult to cope with.
True?
Woman NEED love. Men NEED respect.
YOU MAY SEE IN ME WHAT I MAY NOT SEE IN ME
AND
I MAY SEE IN YOU WHAT YOU MAY NOT SEE IN YOU.
" NOT ALL PEOPLE THINK THE SAME "
Communication !
So much to ask for that special "One" will fit the last piece of the puzzle.
AM I ASKING FOR TOOOOO MUCH ?
Gym bunnies, fitness fanatics and golfers are not my favorites but I do like to be reasonably fit.
My writing needs to be put together but I have a bit of a 'block' at present
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Ballito (Palm Lakes Estate), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
71 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Ndebele; Zulu; Other | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Associates degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 62 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 168cm (5' 6.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Yellow |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Sport; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Woodworking; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Fencing; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Gymnastics; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Hunting; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Mountain biking; Orienteering; Rock climbing; Rugby; Running; Scuba diving; Shooting; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Surfing; Swimming; Triathlon; Volleyball; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; German; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
