In Her Own Words
About Her
Life is to allow us to develop and yes sometimes that can be uncomfortable, - we've all been there.
But you get to a point of acceptance, it's ok, in fact it's better than ok, it can be really great !
I wouldn't change anything, if I had my life over.
What has been, has brought me to this Time and Space.
I have learned much about who I am, the good and the "not so good" and whilst I'll not be perfect in this life. I do believe that I am well rounded.
I am learning to live in the moment .....
it took me a while to learn that one.
The striving is over. Yes one still has to have goals, but they just appear to be much less driven.
All in all, life is good and I intend to enjoy it.
The young man with me in the photo is one of my sons.
An update.... i spent a few years in China and South Korea.
A wonderful experience. I now have many foreign friends.
Back in the Cape I have joined a group of people who are establishing an Eco village kibbutz style unit. With the aim of equipping and training folk in all aspects of sustainable living, including Natural Building ( a passion of mine) its very exciting and really stirs my heart.
I don't need a companion, but I'd like one. It's far more fun to do things with a man around.
Guys we girls know you don't always understand us.... but that's OK. Don't the differences between us make life exciting?
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal match ?
I really don't think there is such a thing.
I hope to meet someone who is comfortable in their own skin.
Preferably someone who understands that this world is only part of our journey.
I'd be very happy if he is kind and compassionate, but not a pushover.
Generous but not foolish.
funny but able to cry during a sad movie.
I'm looking for a very good friend with whom to share my life, or perhaps just a good friend who will be part of my life. Lets chat and see what the future holds.
What Her Friends Say
Charming288 hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Moorreesburg (Hopefield), Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 68 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Quiet; Realistic; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Business; History; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Soap operas; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Meditation; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
