In His Own Words
About Him
I am eager to share my life experiences with someone who resonates with my passions. Instead of frequenting pubs, I find joy in hosting a braai accompanied by a delightful glass of red wine, surrounded by excellent company under the beautiful African sky.
The thrill of travel is a constant in my life. While I primarily explore within South Africa, I am also open to embarking on extended road trips spanning weeks, venturing beyond borders. The adventure of discovering and rediscovering places holds a special place in my heart, whether it's reveling in the beauty of nature, the tranquility of the bush, or the grandeur of the Drakensberg.
I describe myself as a blend of introversion and extroversion, and I must confess, there's a touch of OCD in my personality that adds a charmingly quirky aspect.
I've learned not to be swayed by empty promises without corresponding actions. My ultimate aim is to find a life partner, a best friend, and a companion with whom I can share and savor life's moments. Having encountered my fair share of time-wasters and heard every excuse to avoid video calls for genuine connections, my commitment remains steadfast in finding someone who values honesty and authentic connections as much as I do.
It's important to emphasize that I prefer not to engage in prolonged conversations lasting more than a day. Time is precious, and I am eagerly searching for that special someone who shares my zest for life and genuine connections.
So if think it's fair to say that if I see that you have read my message and haven't responded the same day, I am wasting my precious time and will block and delete you.
About His Ideal Match
I am in search of a wonderfully adaptable woman of Caucasian descent, who possesses both intelligence and beauty. Despite her age, she carries an "old soul" quality, finding joy in travel and exploring destinations within South Africa and beyond. I recognize the fluidity of life, and any significant decisions would only be considered after an initial trial period together.
My ideal partner appreciates being cared for and desires to share in life's joys alongside me. Meaningful conversations, particularly without the need for alcohol, especially during the day, are qualities I highly value. Personal hygiene is paramount to me, reflecting my belief in mutual respect and care. I am prepared to offer the same qualities that I seek in return.
Let me emphasize once more that I won't engage in prolonged conversations lasting more than a day. Time is valuable, and I'm eager to find that special someone who shares my enthusiasm for life and genuine connections.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Ballito, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
181cm (5' 11.3") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; German | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
29 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Intelligent; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Honesty; Moderation; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Business; Crime; History; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Game shows; Nature / Wildlife; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Horror; Mystery |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gambling; Healthy living; Investing |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Hiking; Shooting; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Dancing; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Politics: |
Ultra-conservative |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
