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Boetebessie

44 – Southern Peninsula (Kommetjie area), Cape Town, South Africa

busty, voluptuous, honest, articulate, neat-freak seeks financially stable partner of any age...

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Modified: More than 6 months ago

Online: 02 September 2016

About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Southern Peninsula (Kommetjie area), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
44
Star Sign:
Gemini
Height:
163cm (5' 4.2")
Body Type:
Curvaceous
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Blue-Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
German
Religion:
Other
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Enough

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Southern Peninsula; Southern Suburbs (Western Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
40 - 70
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
163cm (5' 4.2") - 194cm (6' 4.4")
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown; Greying; Grey; White; Shaved
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Moderately important
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English; German; Hebrew
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Buddhist / Taoist; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Other
Income:
Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

Hello, I'm Boetebessie.

Firstly, I am not Afrikaans - I just thought Boetebessie was an hilarious name.

I'm brainy, breasty, funny, flaky, pretty, open-minded, bright, articulate, and in it for the long haul...

I have a brain and I love to absorb new ideas and ways of being. I can hold my own in conversations and offer a lively and stimulating debate without being argumentative.

I am spiritually aware and have a keen interest in metaphysics and transpersonal psychology particularly mindfulness. I have a counselling practice that includes energy psychology. I am also a techno-slut (let it never be said that you were not warned!)

I love animals and children and am excellent with them. My toy dog is the apple of my eye and sleeps in the bed with me. It wouldn't be wise to ask me to choose between you and her ;-) I think she needs me more. I also involuntarily have a pet Cobra called Charlie who likes to move from the top of the driveway to the bottom and sometimes pop out in the middle and say peek-a-boo. These are the joys of living on Table Mountain National Park ;-)

I am seeking a man of immodest means (and for those less eloquent, may I articulate that this would be financial means, with a Barney attitude that "caring is sharing") with an equally immodest psyche to keep my pseudo-intellectual habit going. I am independent and un-clingy so I would be happy for you to spend time playing sport or with your your friends. If fact, this would be a necessity as I enjoy my own time.

I could use many words to describe my temperament, but I would be different with everyone - so you'd need to meet me or chat online with me to get a sense of me. I will always endeavour to treat people with dignity and integrity

Honesty would be of paramount importance...

There is also no such thing as insufferably neat!

We would be friends, lovers, companions, partners, parents and fellow travellers on this journey called life. We all need someone to love.

Don't we all need one person to travel with us?

About Her Ideal Match

I am looking for an integritous relationship with someone who is not a pauper financially, emotionally, intellectually, physically and existentially. If you are a fat cat with a PhD in the social sciences, are excellent to ogle at and double as a flake - you're in! If not, contact me anyway.

I want a relationship with prospects of sharing and caring for one another, while maintaining individual autonomy - i.e. a healthy interdependence over time. I also want to (need to ) be looked after financially (my love language) and you will have your needs (your love language) met in a mindful, conscious and practical way.

I like gentle and soulful types - those who are able to consider themselves and be with themselves (don't get jumpy when they have an hour to themselves) and can also be with me without having to engage with me each minute that we are together.

A good sense of humour is a must as when the shit hits the fan we need to be able to laugh at it. There is also no forgiveness for kicking the catties when your shit hits the fan.

A normative IQ would be nice too so we can chat about things intelligent and connect. Capacity to spell is a plus and the ability to use an apostrophe in the correct place holds a lot of clout for me...

Flag me or message me and let's see where it goes...

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Hair Style:
Long; Straight; Well-behaved
Body Art:
Pierced ears; Navel ring; A tattoo or two
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Naive; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic
Valued Qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Orange
Favourite Clothing:
My pyjamas
Date Activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Cuisine:
Chinese; German; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Rock; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV Shows:
Comedy/Sit-coms; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels
Movie Preferences:
Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Yoga
Sports:
Camping; Horse Riding; Pool; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at Work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Doing absolutely nothing
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Not involved at all
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Not any more
Family Size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family Closeness:
We're dysfunctional
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Reading:
There's nothing better
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Dream Home:
Cabin in the mountains
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Politics:
Liberal
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited