In Her Own Words
About Her
I love being a Black woman, I am deeply respectful of our cultures and I am proudly South African. If you properly understand and respect Black Consciousness, as both a political construct and a socio-economic value, then we will have many joyful conversations - whether or not we agree.
I am a person with integrity, courage and resilience. I am a really good friend, a good listener and a generous spirit. I am fun to be with and am considered caring, witty, spontaneous and creative. I am a deep thinker who possibly over-thinks more than she should. I am a workaholic but am equally happy to invest time and energy into my friends.
I am a full figured woman and love my body and every inch of its African curvaceous identity!
I actually do not mind being single, but I mind doing everything alone. I am open minded enough though to not close any doors on anything; life surprises us everyday. Still, I am seeking new friendships above all else. Never any pressure.
About Her Ideal Match
Someone genuine, intelligent, kind, respectful and with integrity. A good communicator and a gentleman.
I am seeking genuine friendships above all else. I am your "partner-in-crime" for hanging out, going out to dinner, watching a play, doing an event. I regularly do a lot of things alone, but I also enjoy sharing experiences with others. Even if it is just sipping coffee and reading a newspaper.
Life is incredibly short so endless messages back-and-forth are a major irritation. If we e-click then we should chat on the phone then meet for a drink or for breakfast, my favourite meal!
Whilst it would be pretentious to say looks do not matter and since I am on this system mainly for pure friendships, some mutual attraction does sway first impressions and enhance staying power - so, yes, looks matter a bit. The picture is from years ago - the hair got shorter! Dont get in touch for the picture...the person within is a pretty special human being.
Please, even though I seek mainly friendships, I still prefer to chat only with single gentlemen. If you are in any relationship of any sort - respect her and PLEASE don't get in touch with me.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
158cm (5' 2.2") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Sepedi; Sesotho; Tswana; Xhosa; Zulu; Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
PhD / Post Doctoral | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
166cm (5' 5.4") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Black; Greying; None (Bald); Other; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Brown | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Something my (grand)mother made me. |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Country & Western; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; World |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Fiction |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Boxing; Darts; Horse Riding; Pool; Sailing; Snooker; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |