In His Own Words
About Him
I could have spent time with you already but now have to figure out this darn site...
Im the dedicated driver...always... I floss.... I tip... i annoy my parents... I love them... I bring stray dogs home... I digress... Im building a guitar... My mind wanders... i believe in ever-after... I cry (silently)... I anger easily... Im the one you introduce to your mother and present to your father.
Ek is nie 'n sports-fanatic nie. Ek kyk soms rugby, ek is 'n gamer, ek hanteer die vroulike geslag met respek, ek het maniere.
About His Ideal Match
Know that which attracts us might well try to divide, given enough time....
I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving or hide it or fade it or fix it. It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back.
If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all others doubt you - but make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, or being lied about, don't deal in lies too, or being hated, not give way to hating,
If you can dream, and not make dreams your master...
If you can meet in triumph and disaster... and treat those two impostors just the same...
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken , twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, or watch those things you gave your life to, broken, and stoop and build'em up with worn-out tools;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all women count with you , but none too much....
You'll understand my mantra... and I will hold your hand...
You're still reading... excellent...:-)
No two people are the same... Life has never been perfect... it probably never will...
The below poem [I seriously do not know the author] confirms my thoughts when thinking of who i'd like to be for you:
"To be your lover when you need to be loved,
your doctor when you are ill,
your army when you go to war,
your umbrella when life rains down on you,
your rock when you get weary,
your shield when you need defense,
your spirit when you are drained,
your pillow when you need to rest,
your voice when no one can hear you,
your ear when no one will listen,
your comfort when you feel pain,
your hero when you are under duress,
your sunshine when darkness falls,
your inspiration to overcome obstacles,
your hand to hold when you are frightened,
your kiss that wakes you everyday,
and your "I love you" each and every night..."
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Pretoria East), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
28 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
187cm (6' 1.6") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Grey | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 24 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
142cm (4' 7.9") - 173cm (5' 8.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Regular | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Shaved |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Sarcastic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Devotion; Forgiveness; Honesty; Moderation; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; History; Mystery |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Independent; Mystery; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Cricket; Rugby |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I'm a student |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Loft in the city |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |