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45 – Sandton (Fourways), Gauteng, South Africa

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Modified: 28 October 2016

Online: 19 November 2016

About Him

Country of Origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Sandton (Fourways), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
45
Star Sign:
Aries
Height:
183cm (6' 0.0")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Blue-Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; French; Spanish
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Executive / Management
Income:
Wealthy

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Western Cape; Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
25 - 45
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
French
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

[Photos available as soon as I favourite you]
Looking for Adventure ?
Notice - this profile is not like other profiles!

Our current ways of doing relationships don't work. It is out of synch with nature. We go huge trouble of finding a marriage partner and after a few years we are bored and unfulfilled. We don't have enough variety or adventure, at best we have gained a good friend. In monotony (oops, I mean monogamy) relationships often break up because one of you meet someone else, or want to. That doesn't need to be.
But yet simply having a string of one night stands also doesn't satisfy, we have variety but not a lover who is a friend. This is why I favour relationships that I describe as slightly open- in other words, both parties are free to date a small number of other people but not lots and lots. There are also some very upmarket clubs where people can be even more adventurous. That's an optional extra.

Apart from the above you probably want to know a bit more about me. I am a successful businessman.I like the good things in life - good food, good wine and holidays worldwide at least once a year. I am very intelligent and read hundreds of books a year making for, most people say, a high standard of conversation. I haven't made photos public for obvious reasons but will make them available by making you a favourite if you write to me and I think you are potential. If I have already written to you or made you a favourite then your will already be able to see them.

This is not for everyone, but let me know if you'd like a little adventure in your life. We can meet up for dinner and then if you feel like it, either after dinner or on the next date. take you to a club. And we can take it as slowly as you like.

About His Ideal Match

You are reasonably attractive and slim and looking for adventure. You are probably pretty liberal or heading in that direction, and free thinking. You think for yourself and enjoy flouting the standards of society for new and better ways. You reject the traditional voice that says women can't sleep with as many or as few people as they like in whatever way they like. You embrace your sexuality and consider it a wonderful thing. You are tired of jealous men who want to keep you all to themselves. You want to experience the wonder of an open world with a myriad of possibilities. Yet you want to do it within a relationship where you feel loved and valued and respected so that as you explore this new world you feel safe and appreciated. And you realise that the very openness of this new way, will give you the long term, stable experience that means it's not changing every few months. You no longer wish that.
You are ready.

Enter polyamory with a spirit of adventure. In polyamory you can have relationships with a number of people, but due to time constraints, with me at least, usually max two at a time. There are also classy clubs that you can go to in Gauteng where you can fulfil your fantasies. I find them very respectful and friendly. You always only need go as far as you are comfortable. In that safe space you can try out things you have always wanted to do but have been too scared to ask for. Many girls find a real change in their level of sexual fulfilment. Meanwhile you have a primary committed relationship which can be much more long term as it doesn't stop just because you meet someone else or play with other people. A lot of people, men and women, don't want to commit to relationships because it means exclusivity which,lets face it, is boring for both genders, though no one ever admits it. Here you can get that long term, committed relationship with one person but with a whole lot of excitement with other people too!

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Average
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Realistic; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Friendliness; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Green
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Vietnamese
Music Preferences:
Instrumental; Rock
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Travel
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a week
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport Involvement:
Bored to death
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother
Family Closeness:
We're average
Reading:
I enjoy it
Dietary Restrictions:
Other
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Optimistic