In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm a widowed mother of two grown sons. I am easy to get along with and am caring and honest. I have an optimistic nature. I enjoy going out for a meal but am equally happy spending time at home, watching a movie or cooking a meal. I am not a high maintenance type of woman. I enjoy spending quality time with friends and family. Love having a good laugh. Life is too short to be serious all the time :)
I am looking for a friendship which may possibly develop into something more over time, if the chemistry is right. He must be fun to be with and have a good sense of humour.
About Her Ideal Match
Looking for a friend who is kind, caring, honest and genuine. I would prefer someone who knows who they are, who doesn"t take himself too seriously and who has an optimistic approach to life. Basically someone who is fun to be with and who has a great sense of humour.
Looking for someone special to create memories with. Are there any decent guys out there? Looking forward to hearing from you.
If you are already involved, married or looking for a one night stand, please don't contact me.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Cape Town), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
158cm (5' 2.2") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 69 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; French; German; Greek; Italian; Norwegian; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Other | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Gospel / Religious; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket; Gymnastics; Martial arts; Rugby; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; Greek; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |