In His Own Words
About Him
Oyenayena please read up to the end. I am strong, I am loyal,I am firm but fair, quietly but highly ambitious, intelligent and i love with all my heart. I am a man who knows what he wants out of life, likes Sunday braais and i am a bit of a foodie, indoor activities such as cuddling on the couch to watch a movie (or snuggle near a fireplace with a glass of R&R) , playing board games, going to picnics. I love reading, i'm not too crazy about watching TV- i like movies though, i am very ambitious as i said but i am not the boasting type. Occasionally i like going out ... although i have mellowed since passing my 30s. I am forward looking, i do not believe in nursing grudges. I am a bit of an idealist.At this point in my life i would really love to give marriage a chance, yes settle down. I know i have done enough turning up, now all i want is to turn up at home being a family man, raising kids, reading bedtime stories to my kids.... that kind of thing.
About His Ideal Match
I am looking for someone with a beautiful heart, who is loving and understanding. I also like someone with a bit of ambition as well as someone who likes travelling. I love big girls with a big booty, thick thighs and big hips (I'm not ashamed to admit it), that does not mean i will never look at a skinny woman because there are a lot of stunning skinny women. A good conversationalist, good listener. Someone who likes bubble baths with lots of rose petals scattered all over the bedroom. It would be great if she is affectionate as i like kissing, hugging, holding hands, stroking (it's ok if she does not do PDA). It'd be nice if she has quite a bit of a naughty streak to her **wink wink** :-).
Someone who enjoys going to jazz festivals, live events, eating out, taking spur of the moment road trips, wine tastings, art exhibitions, book launches as well as going to empowering events such as conferences, workshops etc.
For me a deal breaker would be a woman with no substance, no spiritual depth. Someone with a "my way or the highway" attitude.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Highlands North), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
Ndebele; Sepedi; Sesotho; Tswana; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Aries; Taurus; Gemini; Cancer; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Sagittarius; Capricorn; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 176cm (5' 9.3") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown; Red; Black | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Ndebele; Sepedi; Sesotho; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; R&B / Soul; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fantasy; History; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Acting; Auto repair; Business news; Card games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Basketball; Body building; Boxing; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Fencing; Fishing; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Ice Hockey; Inline / Roller skating; Martial arts; Rock climbing; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Shooting; Skiing; Sky diving; Snooker; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Soccer; Squash; Swimming; Tennis; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Loft in the city |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |