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Yediydah

63 – Port Shepstone, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

''"All this talking, this rather liquid confessing, was something I didn't think I could ever do''

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Modified: 21 October 2016

Online: 28 December 2016

About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Port Shepstone, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
63
Star Sign:
Taurus
Height:
162cm (5' 3.8")
Body Type:
Ask me later
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Dark Blonde
Eye Colour:
Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans
Other Languages:
English
Religion:
Christian / Protestant
Marital Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Teacher / Professor
Income:
Enough

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in Africa
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
61 - 70
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
167cm (5' 5.7") - 193cm (6' 4.0")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; English
Religion:
Christian / Protestant
Marital Status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Comfortable; Wealthy
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

I have been on this site before but decided to withdraw for a while. I met a few very nice men here. I realized a few important things though: I will not be able to commit myself in a permanent relationship or marriage. To ''date'' costs money. I don't meet the requirements of the men on this site for eg. I am not a former beauty queen. I am not interested in the ''benefits'' part of being friends. Therefore it will have to be friendship only and when we are in each other's area we can maybe meet . I can do with a few new male friends . . .

I am an introvert, but I am not sad or depressed. Being around people for too long drains my energy. I don't dislike people. I admire their social skills, but I don't like partying or big groups.

I am still permanently employed. Therefore I cannot travel the world. I would love too though. I travel in my mind through books and stories, poetry and photography.

Too much sentimentality makes me uncomfortable. Walks on the beach and red wine by candle light. etc. are very nice, but should happen spontaneously. All these romantic ideas are not requirements to be happy in someone's company. I think people, men and women, say all these things, the right things, because they think this is what others would like to hear.

I don't like city life. But I miss some things that cities offer that you don't find in the bush and on the countryside.

My dream is to retire and travel through this beautiful country of ours with a good car, my laptop, an internet connection and a good camera.

I have learned to be happy alone. That way company will be a matter of choice and not necessity.

I don't want my job or relationship status or my position in society or whether I have children or not to define me. I do have children. They are all grownup and live their own independent lives. I also have 8 cute little grandchildren. I love them all dearly, but they are not all I can talk about.

I am restless though. I guess I need a male friend to be together alone with. Does this make sense?

About Her Ideal Match

He should be a mensch.
He should be healthy: Physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially and socially healthy.
Intelligent and sharp, but not snobbish, arrogant, racist, rude or patronizing.
Needy, clingy, smothering, possessive, narcissistic, bossy and controlling men do not attract me.
Well balanced men with interests of their own attract me. Men who are honest and respectable.
He should not be much younger than me. It would be very unfair to start a friendship with a younger man or an extreme extrovert or sport fanatic. I would not be able to meet their requirements. I respect men too much to hurt them.

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Medium
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Quiet
Valued Qualities:
Contentment; Humility; Self-control
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee
Cuisine:
Fine Dining; Seafood
Books:
Fiction
TV Shows:
Nature/Wildlife
Movie Preferences:
Drama
Interests:
Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books
Sports:
Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Visiting a museum or gallery
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
There're several shows I watch regularly
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Reading:
I love it
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Religious Attendance:
Once a week
Retirement Plans:
Finally writing that novel
Politics:
Moderate
Honesty:
Very
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Curious