In Her Own Words
About Her
Well I guess we all see ourselves differently than others do so I believe that when you meet someone they weigh you up through their own perceptions, level of expectations and with out a doubt past experiences. As much as people would like to deny that the past has not changed who they are I am convinced that you carry the positive and sometimes negative into your next relationship, be it friend or lover. By nature humans are moulded into who they are not only by genetics but by the people who cross their paths in life.
On a general information side I am a dedicated teacher and successful business women. I am passionate about my work and truly blessed that I have had the opportunity to follow my dreams.
I believe my friends would describe me as honest, always willing to help, creative, always reaching for the next level of improving myself. I am a dedicated single mom and my children come first.
I know my not so good characteristics are fight not flee when I am threatened, I don't sulk and I find that unattractive in a partner. through past experiences I can be wary and take some time to trust.
I love summer but a good rain storm is also a favourite of mine. I love walking on the beach when its raining softly. Must have music playing at all times in my home and would love a fireplace in my cottage.
Love Christmas, crime and forensic movies. laughter, gin and tonic in summer and whiskey in winter. braai, family and lazy Sundays.
I will only respond to the profiles that have photos available.
About Her Ideal Match
Most definitely seeking a man not a boy. He must be secure in who he is and not still trying to find himself. A gentleman who handles a relationship with respect and willing to meet his partner half way. Enjoys being loved and spoilt. Romance is good and while flowers and words of affection are important, so is thoughtfulness, affection and physical contact.
Able to teach and expose me to new ideas, experiences and his favourite hobbies and interest.
And if love grows from our relationship it would be great to also have him as my best friend.
Hoping to find someone true and not a con artist
To all those who fit into this category, please remember most of us on this site have got broken hearts or are here for the right reasons, don't abuse our time or emotions, pass me by if you are not for real.
For goodness sake guys please make your profile pics public, it can only benefit you by attracting those who find you interesting and not waste a whole lot of time chatting to someone you don't find attractive when you eventually get to see them. Makes sense don't you think?
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Peninsula (fish hoek), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
49 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Mystery |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Painting; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
