selwynberck

52 – Kimberley, Northern Cape, South Africa

Curious but shy to be here. Love women and the female form. Artistic and sensitive.

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Modified: More than 6 months ago

Online: More than 6 months ago

About Her

Country of Origin:
Zambia
Location:
Kimberley, Northern Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
52
Star Sign:
Gemini
Height:
154cm (5' 0.6")
Body Type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Light Brown
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Agnostic
Marital Status:
Married
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Regular Smoker
Drinking:
Regular Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Enough

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Kimberley (Northern Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
25 - 48
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
154cm (5' 0.6") - 175cm (5' 8.9")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Any
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

Sorry about the misleading name..thought it was funny and no one else would have it... lol.....I am a woman in my 40's who, I am always told, looks much much younger. I am young at heart and easy going. I am outgoing (in sales) and love people/kids/animals, as well as the arts/theatre/concerts. I am empathic and very sympathetic to peoples needs and feelings.

I am here to meet new people, esp ladies, as I find men friends, mostly, just dont get it....They are too much in their boxes and afraid to step out of them! they also are not open to change and find facing their fears frightening whereas I think the only way you grow is to work through them and face them.

I sew and sell onesies and other sleepwear, so I work for myself. I also do artwork and sketches, which is how I relax. I love cooking and am told I am VERY good at it...so I like to have dinner parties.....I also love reading and broadening my mind with knowledge. I love music and dancing, both of which relax me, and I walk my dogs every day to keep in shape..I am not, however a gym person, can't stand the things!

I have learned never to judge others by their cover...
I am sensual and sexual and would very much like to meet ladies with a similar sensuality/sensuality who are shy but curious. But also just lady friends...

Used to live both in CPT and the Garden route and go back to both these areas as often as I possibly can...miss the greenery very much..

About Her Ideal Match

A lady who is as easy going and unperturbed by life knocks as I am, tumbles with the blows and comes out the other side better off. Who knows who she is and what she wants and is not afraid to admit it.
Who will take long walks on the beach, getting caught in the rain, sipping pinocolados, appreciating the finer things in life without being hung up on image and bucks...please don't reply if its important to you to own the best car at the best address in town....not gonna happen...those things do not matter to me and never have....I love kids and animals so be prepared for both..hahaha...well animals, kids grown up and live elsewhere....

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short
Body Art:
A tattoo or two
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality Traits:
Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Wild & Crazy
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Purple
Favourite Clothing:
A wicked satin teddy
Date Activities:
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant
Cuisine:
Chinese; Greek; South African; Sushi; Thai
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Classical; Instrumental; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40
Books:
Crime; Fantasy; History; Mystery; Romance; Self-help; Travel
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Writing poetry
Sports:
Birdwatching; Chess; Cycling; Hiking; Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Hectic
Time at Work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Volunteering
Time Online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I love it!
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Never
Sport Involvement:
Not involved at all
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're dysfunctional
Willing to Relocate:
Not at all
Reading:
There's nothing better
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish
Pets (Dislike):
Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking; Wealth
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Religious Attendance:
Never
Retirement Plans:
Backpacking around the globe
Politics:
Very Liberal
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Nervous; Curious; Embarrassed