In His Own Words
About Him
Loving father, stable, modest and a romantic. Maybe it's me you've been waiting for all this time...
I've grown: to appreciate the imperfections that each one of us have; to understand that focusing on those things we share, those we agree on and those that we both want nurtures a relationship better than focusing on a few, usually insignificant differences.
I'm a serial optimist, a hard worker at my best moments and a dreamer whose best times are ahead. I've traveled, I've read. I love family and that would include yours, the type that your elders will keep reminding you about, "he loves you very much!"
Our children's success is often a measure of how much we have invested in their growth.
A father is a supporter, a funder, a mentor, a counselor, a friend, a playmate and a protector. If it gets there, I've children to whom I would expect you to be a wonderful mother, so I take my duties as a father to your child(ren) very seriously.
I respect all religions/beliefs as being equal. I love my African heritage and I would say I am a bit of a reluctant Christian. I do not want to be changed nor do I seek to convert you . If I love you, I'll love you as you're. You will know that you're loved.
ABOVE ALL ELSE, my woman is the centre of my world. My best friend, best fan and critic! The one whose positive images always fill my mind. The person I must chat to three times a day. A co-leader of our home. Thus, you deserve all the true love and attention I can offer YOU!!!
About His Ideal Match
You have played and been played perhaps, so you're not into that... You have a good reputation in your circle of friends and associates. You're faithful and you're ready to commit to a man who loves you perfectly, once we settle the knowing each other part even if that takes a few years.
You're an entrepreneur with big dreams or a mover and an achiever in your corporate/public sector career. You listen and communicate well. You're open to the possibility of knowing a man who was raised in a remote poor village and who remains deeply connected to it, but who also travels the world.
You understand the standing of a wife (that's the ultimate goal) in an extended African family -who nurtures, organises, inspires respect, builds bridges, motivates and creatively warms the home despite her demanding schedule. You'll make me the envy of my friends and family, who will wonder where I got you and who raised you.
You're an easily warm mother to children. If you're a romantic and adventurous lover (or you try hard) what wise man wouldn't appreciate that?
Medical science tells us that the first person to live to 150 years old has been born already. So, you're conscious of what you eat and how you look after your body. You know that we may want to make love in our holiday home when we're 95+.
Let's chat beautiful....
What His Friends Say
Yoursmaybe hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Roodepoort (Johannesburg), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
English; Ndebele; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
20 - 38 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 165cm (5' 5.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Ndebele; Swati; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Honesty; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Colour: |
Brown |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Educational; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Painting; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Boxing; Soccer |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Fast food; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
Ask me later |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
