In His Own Words
About Him
Underneath my hard rough exterior is the need for something more than a fleeting fling, I am a wonderful, smart, confident gentleman. I know I am talented and confident in many ways. Maybe I'm good at public speaking or I'm a dynamite cook; perhaps I'm really ambitious or I love sports. Maybe I'm great at painting, or I play in a band, perhaps I can write really well or I do well academically. Maybe I will fit in perfectly with your friends. Maybe I'm all, some or none of these things. Maybe I'm something else. But these are things you'll never know if you missed the chance to get to know me. Its not just that you will miss out on having someone there when you need or having a bad day, someone to make you laugh when you are worried, or someone to stick by you. Its that you'll miss knowing me. Me - 1 in 8.5 billion - and you'll miss it because ... well, you don't realize a good thing when it is smiling right in front of you. If you miss this chance, you may miss something wonderful and beautiful in your life. You may miss the chance to experience something light and flirty, or serious and meaningful. You may miss the chance to be with me - to have loyalty, love and sunshine in your life.
I want to really love from the depths of my consciousness, that my love for her gives me a native wisdom.
I want to perceive her needs intuitively and clearly, with detachment from any personal desires, I want to know how to act creatively to meet those needs, dexterously surmounting any and all obstacle that could get in the way.
It is just a shame that some times the lady who is the Queen of a man's heart doesn't appreciate it. Especially if she likes the attention of other men. And gives up the love of one man in the pursuit of popularity of others that she enjoys.
I want everybody to take a look at this right now! Because this -- this right here -- this is exactly why falling in love is so goddamn hard!
About His Ideal Match
If you feel that you are 'too old', or that age matters: Close your eyes and hear the expressions of passion... Close your eyes and feel the expressions of passion... Close your eyes and smell the essence of passion... Close your eyes and taste the essence of passion. Now... Open your eyes - because the expressions and essence of passion you've just experienced, are what we live life for each day. No measurement of time will ever separate the love of two who wish to express and experience each other.
I would like to find a Lady , one that I can love and loves me in return , a lady that would be proud to call me her's and I would be proud to be with her. She would have patients to see that I am only human , but that I do try and would love me enough to help me in my short comings .
I would like there to be a mutual trust based on honesty and love to know with out a doubt that when we are not with each other , we would not be doing something to hurt the other one.
She would be a part of a puzzle of someone's life. She may never know where to fit in, but others will fill holes in their lives with pieces of her.
I am not one that wants to tame her wild spirit , but I want to rather run wild with her.
As a hint towards trying to match up with the amazing person that she needs to be to change my single status here are a few pointers.
Should always be her authentic self.
Should love dogs . I have 3.
Should love cats. I have 1.
Should be independent , just as I am.
Should be looking for a man to compliment her life , not complete it.
Should be okay with the fact that I work long hours from time to time, as I own a business.
Should enjoy walks on the beach regularly.
If she is a novice cyclist and into mountain biking / beach rides , this would be a serious bonus.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Blaauwberg (Milnerton), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
40 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
186cm (6' 1.2") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
28 - 38 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Honesty |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
