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Modified: 30 September 2016

Online: 30 September 2016

About Him

Country of Origin:
Uganda
Location:
Grahamstown, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
41
Star Sign:
Scorpio
Height:
181cm (5' 11.3")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Black
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Black/African
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Other
Religion:
Agnostic
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Short-term
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in Eastern Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
Any
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I am fairly well-educated; worldly; and some people think I am quite funny. I was also quite clever when I was younger. But why should I blow a trumpet, when you can engage me and find out for yourself? I might become a subject of hate mail, but that's not my intention. I do care that if you get in touch, you ask me about my experiences; then judge me. I tale a pretty good tale. And yes, I think I am blowing my own horn a little here. But I want to meet people; and to share experiences. No cinema in Grahamstown anymore (boo hoo!), but I travel; and there are other things to do. Give us a try; please?

About His Ideal Match

The girl I am looking for (and you're all girls from 18 to 60) is cerebral, bookish, musical (even without the talent), outgoing (even without going being stylish), and comfortable in the lone-wolf existence. She is OK with herself; considerate of others, but is no pushover. Above all, she's honest and her advice is often free-and in plenty. My experience with sites such as this is that one has to be as honest as one can about what one truly wants. I am here to find a nice girl--and my heart wants her to just that that: a nice girl. My head bets that some nice girls will reject me because of my race (I've seen enough "regrets but race is an issue"). I am not a self-hating black man. Just a realistic man, who hopes that after you've read this, you might change your heart.
Note to self: I have lived in South Africa long enough to realise how traumatic inter-racial anything (and especially dating) still is. I don't mind that one bit. However, race is a cross I've chosen not to carry.

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Light
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Long
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
A wallflower
Personality Traits:
Mild
Valued Qualities:
Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Black
Favourite Clothing:
Anything, as long as it's black
Date Activities:
Meeting for coffee
Cuisine:
Doesn't matter
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Documentaries; Movie Channels; News
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Cult Classics; Independent
Interests:
Board games; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking
Sports:
Athletics; Basketball; Chess; Cycling; Golf; Motorsport; Running; Snooker; Soccer; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Out of control
Time at Work:
I should have a bed in my office
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Cooking:
I can't or won't cook
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I mostly use my TV for news or sport
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Animals:
I like animals
Family Size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Fish
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Dream Home:
Castle in Scotland
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Retirement Plans:
At home with a good book
Politics:
Moderate
Honesty:
Very
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Hopeful