In His Own Words
About Him
I'm a versatile person that has a positive motivating personality with a "can do" attitude. I'm comfortable and confident enough to say what's on my mind and easily digest new ideas. I'm approachable, kind and actually do listen when you speak. I laugh easily and drop witty dry humour. I see laughter and being able to spontaneously dance with that special someone in your home as the secret to happiness. (But good cooking really really helps as well). Admittedly I do enjoy a good warm meal but on the same note am easy to please. I can find my way around most subjects / topics with ease and my nature is firmly rooted in life-long learning and development. Yes I do love children and pray to be blessed someday with their laughter filling my home. I value family and the closeness shared. I don't believe in the modern concept of his and her family. As an Indian when we mix masala we cannot again separate the ingredients.Family is family period and as long as there is space at the table it should be filled with love. I love the sea, rollerblading, evening beach walks with ice-cream in one hand and my partner in the other (I'm refusing to share the ice-cream though), picnics, nature, pets being limited to dogs and most importantly breathing.
About His Ideal Match
Am I a romantic? Absolutely yes! But admittedly sometimes I'm like a bull in a china shop and you have to slap a sign on my forehead (gently)! In her - I value a good sense of humour, a person that considers herself versatile, attractive, tastefully groomed, laughter and some form of wiliness to do activities as a couple. I appreciate a partner who is comfortable and confident enough to be herself around me. Someone who doesn't have to think when it comes to doing things together be it a mid-night picnic with mosquitoes or doing the salsa in public in the rain. Make-up sprinkled lightly to enhance ones natural beauty is acceptable but too much where I don't recognize the person is a serious turn-off. Long hair makes me weak at the knees.
She should be polite yet a tigress that loves life with all its vibrancy and moments. A well balanced person who is confident and as colourful as a raindrop reflecting light. She shouldn't be ashamed of laughing and just being herself. I admire confidence and intelligence with a "let's get our hands dirty together" attitude.. The thing is if you would like to know me as a person, feel free to express your interest and don't fear writing long letters as they will be appreciated. If my details didn't peak any interest - all the best in your search moving forward.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Hindu | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 36 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
158cm (5' 2.2") - 178cm (5' 10.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Business; Fiction; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Horror; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Business news; Computer & video games; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Archery; Badminton; Body building; Bungee jumping; Camping; Gymnastics; Inline / Roller skating; Martial arts; Motorsport; Rugby; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Surfing; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Playing with my pet |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Nervous; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |