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gothicD

53 – Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

Romantic enough to make you hand made birthday cards and cuddle you when you least expect.

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Online: 29 October 2023

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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In His Own Words

About Him

I'm a versatile person that has a positive motivating personality with a "can do" attitude. I'm comfortable and confident enough to say what's on my mind and easily digest new ideas. I'm approachable, kind and actually do listen when you speak. I laugh easily and drop witty dry humour. I see laughter and being able to spontaneously dance with that special someone in your home as the secret to happiness. (But good cooking really really helps as well). Admittedly I do enjoy a good warm meal but on the same note am easy to please. I can find my way around most subjects / topics with ease and my nature is firmly rooted in life-long learning and development. Yes I do love children and pray to be blessed someday with their laughter filling my home. I value family and the closeness shared. I don't believe in the modern concept of his and her family. As an Indian when we mix masala we cannot again separate the ingredients.Family is family period and as long as there is space at the table it should be filled with love. I love the sea, rollerblading, evening beach walks with ice-cream in one hand and my partner in the other (I'm refusing to share the ice-cream though), picnics, nature, pets being limited to dogs and most importantly breathing.

About His Ideal Match

Am I a romantic? Absolutely yes! But admittedly sometimes I'm like a bull in a china shop and you have to slap a sign on my forehead (gently)! In her - I value a good sense of humour, a person that considers herself versatile, attractive, tastefully groomed, laughter and some form of wiliness to do activities as a couple. I appreciate a partner who is comfortable and confident enough to be herself around me. Someone who doesn't have to think when it comes to doing things together be it a mid-night picnic with mosquitoes or doing the salsa in public in the rain. Make-up sprinkled lightly to enhance ones natural beauty is acceptable but too much where I don't recognize the person is a serious turn-off. Long hair makes me weak at the knees.

She should be polite yet a tigress that loves life with all its vibrancy and moments. A well balanced person who is confident and as colourful as a raindrop reflecting light. She shouldn't be ashamed of laughing and just being herself. I admire confidence and intelligence with a "let's get our hands dirty together" attitude.. The thing is if you would like to know me as a person, feel free to express your interest and don't fear writing long letters as they will be appreciated. If my details didn't peak any interest - all the best in your search moving forward.

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
53
Star Sign:
Libra
Height:
170cm (5' 6.9")
Body Type:
Athletic
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Black
Eye Colour:
Black
Ethnicity:
Indian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Hindu
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Yes
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Occasional
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Ask me later
Income:
Ask me later

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
18 - 36
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
158cm (5' 2.2") - 178cm (5' 10.1")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Any
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Yes
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short; Medium
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Facial Hair:
None
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Sarcastic
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
The life of the party
Personality Traits:
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Sarcastic
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Blues; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock
Reading:
I enjoy it
Books:
Business; Fiction; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Horror; Romance; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Business news; Computer & video games; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Archery; Badminton; Body building; Bungee jumping; Camping; Gymnastics; Inline / Roller skating; Martial arts; Motorsport; Rugby; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Surfing; Swimming
Food
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Food:
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Pastimes of choice:
Playing with my pet
Time Online:
Once or twice a week
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've lost count
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Get promoted
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Dream Home:
Beach house
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement Plans:
Sipping margaritas on a beach
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa:
Nervous; Curious
Honesty:
Extremely