In Her Own Words
About Her
I am a 45yr old divorced woman looking for friendship with the possibility marriage. I would prefer a Capetonian gentlemen between the ages of 40-51yrs.
A bit about myself: Depth of character, a critical sense, loyalty, respect for the other, sincere religion and a sense of family: These are qualities I'd like to believe are important traits that define me. Life has led me to feel that I am a woman of substance, valueing things true, things real and things spiritual.
I have come to realise that I might not be someone's 1st choice, but I'm a great choice.I am loyal, very loving and affectionate and little things steal my heart. I may not be rich but I'm valuable.I am told that I make a sincere difference with everyone I meet and try to do this all the time because that pleases my Allah and it sets a good example to my children (son 20 and daughter 18.
Among my most important values are honesty and integrity. I love life and enjoy being spontaneous. I am open to new adventures and meeting people. I am a hopeless romantic and very giving. Creativity turns me on. I treat people the way I would like to be treated. Its the little things that bring me joy and when I love, I love unconditionally. I am firm on ethics, sound values and sensitivity .
Things I enjoy most are live shows, watching the sunset, listening to music, watching movies, fireplaces (or just the heater will do), camping and socialising. I also find great pleasure in being alone at times. I am told that I have an interesting sense of humour. I have quite a naughty side too, so dont judge a book by its scarf.
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal match would be a gentleman between the ages of 40 - 50
A man who puts Allah first in his life, who is willing to take the journey to Jannah with me insha-allah. A man who is content with who he is, financially stable, treats people with respect . Someone that I can laugh with and sometimes at and who will laugh at me when I do something silly.....Someone who will hold me in his arms and make me feel that I am loved and protected. Someone that wants to be loved everyday. Someone that I can grow old with .Someone that will teach me if I dont know...... Someone that will pray with me....and For me, and I can pray for....
A man that will be lazy with me on the odd Sunday morning and spend the day or the morning in his pj's with me...... Someone that I can grab hold of in our home and dance with when we hear our favourite song..... and Someone that I can sit with and not say a single word to.....and yet we are speaking volumes simply by looking at each other........
A man who will be good to my kids and allow me to be good to his.
Someone that is willing to stand side by side with me. A man that I am not subservient to, but my life partner, the one who anchors me and the one who I was created for .I would like a man who will be comfortable and love my full figure and accept my short comings.. I have always been of the opinion that most men look at the wrapping of a woman and dont take the time to discover the gift inside. Allah has blessed me with gifts that would make a man happy in every sense of the word.
A man who is family orientated. My match should enjoy being cared for, pampered and teased. Lets see how smart u are. [removed]
Its a tall order , but I'm worth it!
"The Superior man is modest in his speech, but excels in his actions. - Confucious."
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Athlone), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Coloured | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Muslim | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
38 - 46 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Coloured; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Muslim | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Silly; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Photography; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Gymnastics; Horse Riding; Rugby; Sky diving; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
