In His Own Words
About Him
I guess that at my age one needs to be mature about relationships, we have probably all had our share of disappointment and I hear that many of you girls are tired of guys who play games. Well not all guys are like that and there are still some around who have honour, integrity and respect.
So why me, well : -
I'm of sober habits but not averse to letting loose a bit if the mood calls for it, I'll take my punishment the following day and certainly won't be doing it again for a while.
I have my own business and have been relatively successful. I'm responsible, reliable, well mannered and not inclined to mess people around. I like to get away when possible and equally enjoy the coast or the bush, camping has its place as much as 5 star hotels or anything in between. Fishing and Golf are my pastimes of choice and my partner is welcome to join in these activities but if you don't want to thats also cool.
My friends say I'm quite intelligent and witty but sometimes a "bit rough around the edges", I'm not entirely sure what they mean by that but it doesn't seem too bad.
Any baggage I may have acquired over the years is all in control, I have a great relationshipwith my kids, they are quite grown up now but I really enjoy my time with them when they visit.
I try to take care of myself and gym out of necessity not because I particularly enjoy it. I have a somewhat limited vocabulary in the kitchen but try to eat healthily although I find it difficult to get motivated when cooking for one.
So, I am not on this site to mess anyone around and I'm not a "player". I am looking for a relationship and I am sincere.
About His Ideal Match
Importantly, please have a visible photograph, preferably one that is recent and not photo shopped, or open any photo's you may have, mine are.
Other than that I have no hard and fast rules but this site allows me to set out my "wish list" so here goes : -
Being a bit old fashioned I have always thought that my partner would be a few years younger than me so I guess late 40's early to mid fifties is the mark. I also don't know if long distance relationships can work so she will probably be from Gauteng.
Defining qualities include intelligence, compassion, humility and plain common decency.
Have a sense of humour and be able to laugh at yourself, don't take life too seriously and know how to chill out.
Its great if you are successful in your chosen field but remember where you started and that being successful doesn't mean you are allowed to be bossy. Be as comfortable in evening dress (that cute little black number that all girls have) as you would be in jeans and T shirt.
This is now sounding like a shopping list so quickly to finish.
Have no problem with kids and I would guess that if you have your own they are well into their teens or twenties by now. Be comfortable with animals, enjoy travel, the beach and the bush. Take care of yourself physically and mentally and have pride in your appearance.
Really just being normal and nice would be a great start.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Sandton (Lonehill), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
187cm (6' 1.6") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
46 - 58 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
154cm (5' 0.6") - 176cm (5' 9.3") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fiction; Mystery |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Boxing; Camping; Cricket; Fishing; Golf; Rugby; Sailing; Soccer; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them Well Done ;) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |