In His Own Words
About Him
I am certainly not here to hurt / trick or embarrass anyone.. So I do pride myself on being open / honest and straight forward.. I do have Christian values and know that I love people.. I cant pretend I dont have issues - lets face it we all do!! But I don't pass it on to the next person.. I do have respect for people who are honest with me. It is what we do in the worse of times that tell the world who we really are..
I am very strong willed and apparently sensitive - but thats not the case when someone is trying to manipulate / control me.. I enjoy talking and getting to know the real person, not the mask that hides the fears and insecurities..
I respect the place I am in my life - it may be hard, but we all are on a journey that takes us to these places, it teaches us lessons & challenges our characters.. So yes - I know the person I am becoming, but don't regret the path that got me here..
I do enjoy spending time alone as well - I find it interesting when people are not comfortable being on their own.. It allows time to really get to know them..
Oh yes, lastly - but very importantly - I like to consider myself as a non-judgmental person and/or or their situations - I believe we all in a different space to one another (opposites sometimes do attract - I DID say sometimes lol)
So you find the above worthy of your curious mind - take the leap and see what happens :)
About His Ideal Match
In a ideal world, beauty is preferred, but I do look forward in meeting someone who is beautiful in the inside and also attractive.
Open, honesty, being straight forward with the person I do see, is very important to me. Lying, cheating,dishonesty doesn't really do anything for me. It makes more distance than anything else.
The person must be young at heart and be able to live life in a responsible way with the consideration of the people who is in her life. If there is someone who loves me to join them in there hobbies / activities, I would have to say that they would have to play that game both ways.. I cannot be the only one trying things out for the first time lol
I see my match as having the same values that I have when it comes with living life as a couple.. Sharing fears and failures and able to be there for each other when things start to get out of control.. As a man, one is only as great as what your partner sees in you - basically taking the good with the bad essentially..
The ideal match must love love, be honest with themselves and allow growth in each other - and accepting each other as a individual..
Just a rough outline of what comes to mind right now.. But we live in a world where one cant get all of these in one person.. so having a person who has values would really be awesome and be okay to hold judgement and find out more before assuming they know me better than myself:-)
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl (Cape Town CBD area), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
166cm (5' 5.4") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
32 - 48 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
161cm (5' 3.4") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown; Red; Black; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Coloured; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Outspoken; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Instrumental; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Business; Fantasy; History; Mystery |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Card games; Cooking; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Camping; Cricket; Hiking; Pool; Rock climbing; Soccer |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Italian; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |