In Her Own Words
About Her
First and foremost, at this stage of my life i'm just looking to broaden my social circle, to meet new and intersting people and to not have the pressure of dating. If there is chemistry and love happens and it's a match - there will be no protestation from my side.
I am gentle, kind, patient and reliable with refined sensibilities. I enjoy being glamorous when the occasion calls, but plugging out and just chilling is a favourite too. Equally tempered with my softness is a metal tiger within that is sensuous and determined in nature with a good dose of resilience. I love affection and to give it. Quiet times are great, but I also love being part of adventure and escaping the city and enjoy thrill seeking as long as it's not too dangerous. I am looking for a dashing partner, strong arm and good friend in my life to share and create fantastic memories with.
About Her Ideal Match
I am looking for a man who is interesting and interested in life. I find strength in character, mental strength and someone who can take charge really attractive. Weakness is not a flaw and i'll be there to support you through it, but you must be able to stand on your own. Whilst I am not the most active sportswoman, I am a supporter, so I'd be there on the front lines with my pom poms if you are an active participant in sport ( and with most things in your life). If you have the attitude that life is for living, seeing and doing then I would like to be a part of that with you. Good manners are important too and integrity is a given.
I would love the strengths of this relationship to be active mental activity and a love of games and play. - we should be able to relax together and have fun but equally apply ourselves to what may be serious times.
Having a "boy "hobby is important , if not essential - to me becuase it means we can share in things like camping, 4 x4ing,adventure sports, fun outdoor activities and wild travel experiences if youre that guy.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl (Unspecified Suburb), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
154cm (5' 0.6") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Chinese | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
181cm (5' 11.3") - 184cm (6' 0.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Painting; Pottery; Sewing |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Backgammon; Dancesport; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Running; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Honesty: |
Very |