In His Own Words
About Him
If I collected T shirts they'd say "What you doing with your life?" or "Make a difference" or "Have you hugged someone today?" I haven't nor intend to live a boring routine existence. I don't have pizzas on a set day or go to the same dance joint regularly or do the same thing every Saturday afternoon. I may be a brain person (I guess my passion as an inventor gives this one away) but also have a naughty romantic streak that has had me in trouble on more than one occasion. My dress style is slightly classic casual but with a modern touch (my 3 piece suite hasn't seen daylight in a while). In the kitchen, the poison I produce has so far not killed anyone, lol. And to dancing... let's move on. I don't sing in the shower (my dogs might join in the howling ;D) but with my childhood hearing issues, music has become a very very big part of my life.
I have not been the innocent angel type guy most girls know and have lead a very different and independent life especially in my youth. I have matured and like to think I'm a well rounded, successful gentleman and now enjoy the finer things in life. I still have my naughty boy maverick attitude though (I somehow think my social circle would not recognize me if I didn't have that).
I took my divorce (some years back) in a positive light and realised I needed to study relationships and I have gotten to know myself much better and also what I need in a girl. What's in her head and heart is what really matters to me rather than the face and bod (that would be a bonus :D). Being the social guy I am, realise that if ever I were to make the big 'M..' decision that I will not drop my social circle or my family or my journey of personal growth.
I don't have kids even though I have come to love the little buggers. I guess lady luck knows how to play cruel tricks as well huh. I'm still keen on having my own and I must admit I would give preference to girls who already has or even better can make it happen. Maybe I'm chasing a dream but for now let's see what the future brings.
About His Ideal Match
You gotta be yourself and be able to handle a strong man around you. Anything else is a turn off. I am supportive but you got to know you want. You can't pin your happiness solely on me, you gotta be happy with yourself first. A girl with life experiences who looks past the daily crap of life and dances in the snow. Your eyes are bright and convey the depth of your spirit.
If fun and joy dominate your life and can be seen in your energy. If you're curious about the world around you. Knows fun flirt chat as well as the serious important stuff, (life does not have to be all monotonous). Understands and appreciates chivalry.
As I am proud of who I am with, I'm affectionate & kiss in public (let all who see eat their heart out ;D). If you can converse intelligently in a language other than "Girl" ;D.
If you believe games are for the bedroom only. If you lose pillow fights gracefully (believe me you will, I'm good haha). If you believe your true best friend is the one for whom your conscience will always prick you.
My unusual life style has its rewards in a healthy, fit and supple body so it would be nice if you at least think you can keep up with me.
So I'm a guy who's got my peg firmly in the ground for who I am and what I stand for. Some girls say I'm aloof and play hard to get. I actually am friendly and have many awesome close female friends in my circle (some who may feel the need to check you out first and I apologise ahead if any of them do). I'm actually quite happy on my own and don't feel the need for a girl to complete me but it would be nice to have a really really great girl along for the ride. I may take time getting to know you but if I'm interested, you'll know about it. And if you're a dance instructor, or you know Jamie Oliver personally, I'm already interested :D.
I know shy girls can also be strong, I promise I won't bite (well not hard anyway ;D). I'm a real softie for a gorgeous smile, so there you got yourself a weapon against me. Enough said (I can't give away everything now :D). Let's see..
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Netherlands | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Pomona), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
190cm (6' 2.8") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Dutch | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 44 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") - 187cm (6' 1.6") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Moderation; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Mystery |
Interests: |
Business news; Computer programming; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Basketball; Bungee jumping; Cycling; Darts; Hiking; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Motorsport; Pool; Rugby; Snooker; Squash; Swimming; Walking; Weight training; White water rafting; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; French; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
