luka_586

56 – Southern Peninsula (Muizenberg), Cape Town, South Africa

Active, outdoors-loving free spirit looking for local like-mindeds to share time, maybe travel

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Modified: More than 6 months ago

Online: More than 6 months ago

About Her

Country of Origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Southern Peninsula (Muizenberg), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
56
Star Sign:
Cancer
Height:
170cm (5' 6.9")
Body Type:
Slim
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Blonde
Eye Colour:
Blue-Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
French; Other
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Enough

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
48 - 60
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
168cm (5' 6.1") - 191cm (6' 3.2")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
English; French
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

I'm happiest out in nature, living barefoot in t-shirt and shorts or jeans, like warmth and sunshine, early mornings, kayaking, hiking, cycling (gently!), stretching, good books, good food, jazz and lots of other music, spending time in Madagascar and other Indian Ocean Islands, and in rural seaside Cyprus for a few of months of summer to escape the Cape winter. I'm pretty content most of the time being single, independent, do a lot on my own and with a few close friends, most of whom are couples. But sometimes miss having a close friend or special partner to share things with, especially travel and trips away. I work freelance doing writing, editing and publishiing-related stuff, so 9-5 routine not part of my life. Haven't used a dating site before but would like to meet reasonably fit and relaxed local guys who enjoy at least some of the same things as I do, to share activities and company. Am not posting a photo as primarily I'm looking to connect as friends; if anything more materialises, that's great. My only 'child' is 24 and completely independent, working in India/Chile/Australia for the few years, so to say 'not living with me' is an understatement!
My must-avoids are shopping malls, traffic, social gatherings, formality, loud people & drunken behaviour, environmental saboteurs, dogmatism and intolerance, cold places and short dark days.
(I may be moving east to Wilderness soon, so also keen to contact people in Wilderness/George/Sedgefield area.)
I'm indifferent to competitive sport, TV, conformity, smart cars, fashion, most urban stuff, nationalism ...

About Her Ideal Match

Well as I'm happy to connect as friends in any case, this isn't necessarily relevant, but my ideal match would be a reasonably fit and active guy with sense of humour and a generally compassionate, inclusive and tolerant attitude to life, caring towards people, other living things, and the environment generally. I do a lot of outdoor stuff I'd like to share -- kayaking, mountain walks, swimming in warm lakes and sea -- and travel when I can, in southern Africa and elsewhere (warm places!). So someone who's into those things and generally living simply and enjoying the here and now, someone I can be quiet with and talk to -- about life, the universe, religion, politics, nonsense, relationships, anything at all ...
I'm very independent, value my close friends hugely and need solo time, so my ideal match would be happy doing things together sometimes but also separately -- not possessive of time and attention. I don't think one person will ever be everything to another, so let each other be free to enjoy the things you don't want to do.
I like kids, have a fantastic son of 24, now fully independent; I'm happy to be around other kids, animals, do the relaxing-around-home-and-garden stuff with someone if a guy is into that.

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Long
Body Art:
I don't have any; Pierced ears
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Intelligent; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Shy
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Doesn't matter; Greek; Indian
Music Preferences:
Classical; Folk; Jazz; R&B / Soul; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; Non-fiction; Travel
Movie Preferences:
Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Independent
Interests:
Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Woodworking; Writing poetry; Yoga
Sports:
Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Hiking; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time Online:
I check in once a day
Dining Out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Not involved at all
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Not any more
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
My friends are my main family
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Rodent(s); Other
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Power; Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Religious Attendance:
I'm non-practicing
Politics:
Liberal
Honesty:
Extremely