In Her Own Words
About Her
If you are a player or into mind games...please pass me by. I am LOVING, LOYAL, well groomed, humble, calm, kind, compassionate and caring. I respect myself and others, and I am aware of who I am. I am warm, open- hearted and cultured with a gentle spirit and inquiring mind. I also value beauty in all its forms, whether found in objects, nature or people, and I cultivate it in myself and my surroundings. I enjoy charity work, cooking, travelling, socialising, and the theater. I also have a passion for the ocean. I value compassion, kindness, honesty, non-conformity and open-mindedness. I love the excitement of romance that brings lovers together with lots of hugs, kisses and laughter and "new eyes" for everything. I LIVE TO LOVE AND TO BE LOVED. I am a Passionate, loving person with a heart. I've learned how to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. In a relationship it is not what you receive but what you give. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. I know I really love someone when I want them to be happy even if their happiness means that I am not part of it. I believe that "we come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." In a relationship, it takes two to make something work and to make it what it will be. Love, respect and responsibility are my fixed-term liabilities for living together with others within ease and harmony. I do not live in fear because of my past. Instead I understand that my life experiences are merely lessons meant to bring me closer to self knowledge and unconditional self love. I am hopeful and strong enough to make all my dreams come true. I know love therefore I give love, I recognise that love has great value and must be reciprocated. If love is taken for granted it soon disappears.
About Her Ideal Match
TRUST AND LOYALTY IS VERY IMPORTANT TO ME....Here is a dreamer waiting for only ONE love, being a selective man, who will recognise and want me for my qualities. Not for the way I look, but for the way I look at him. A man who's very strong in his space, and doesn't need to prove anything. An honest and open man who lets me in, because he understands who I am. To build a life together where foolish gentleness and too soft is allowed to have wings.
A woman is measured by the things she cannot control. She is measured by the way her body curves or doesn't curve, by where she is flat or round. She is measured by 36-24-36, inches, ages and numbers, by all the outside numbers that don't add up to who she is on the inside. So if she is to be measured, let her be measured by the things she can control, by who she is and who she is trying to become, because as every woman knows, measurements are only statistics and statistics lie.
I may not be the most beautiful, or the sexiest, nor do I have the perfect body. I might not be everyone's first choice, but I'm a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me.
RELATIONSHIPS AREN'T FOR GETTING THINGS. THEY ARE FOR GIVING THINGS. NEVER FALL IN LOVE TO ONLY MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY. FALL IN LOVE TO MAKE THE PERSON YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH HAPPY.
Embrace the past with rememberance and the future with longing.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Helderberg (Gordons Bay), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
72 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
58 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 185cm (6' 0.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight; Curly; Well-behaved; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Pink |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Self-help; Travel |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sewing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Pastimes of choice: |
Volunteering |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |
