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Modified: More than 6 months ago

Online: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Margate, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
49
Star Sign:
Taurus
Height:
172cm (5' 7.7")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Above Average
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Ask me later
Smoking:
Regular Smoker
Drinking:
Regular Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
25 - 39
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
153cm (5' 0.2") - 183cm (6' 0.0")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Moderately important
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Occasional Smoker; Regular Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Agriculture
Income:
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Well, itís quite a challenge to write about yourself other than a few tidy adjectives which donít do much in describing who you are, but I do see that itís necessary to catch someoneís serious attention

After living alone now for a few years I feel a growing need to share life with a woman again. Although sharing space closely with someone is certainly not always easy, living without an emotional and sexual partner begins to feel more and more unbalanced and even unhealthy. Iíd love to wake up with someone, and to come home to someone (not that you have to stay at home). To share responsibilities and kindnesses. To face difficulties together as well as enjoy the good moments. To talk together -thatís so important but sometimes so difficult. To laugh together Ė that would be wonderful. I imagine a woman whose presence makes my heart beat faster and makes me feel glad to attend to lifeís (sometimes tedious) routines.

I live on a large and green property near the sea on the lower south coast of KZN. Iím recently learning to enjoy
the bounty that itís earth can potentially provide. I love to run around on the beach with the dogs or climb over the rocks with my son. Heís five and is often at home with me. My teenage daughters come and go as it suits them.

Reading can be deeply satisfying and Iíd spend more time doing it if I could. And cozying up in bed next to the one you love with a good book is the nicest way to end the day. I also like to cook and enjoy good food but canít be bothered with complicated recipes. Going to the movies is also good, as is bringing home a good dvd, and even watching tv is often pleasantly relaxing. Oh, and exercise is good for me Ė I should do it more often.

About His Ideal Match

I realize that home (where your family, friends and work is) is very important for most of us and precludes many potential relationships with those from far away. Gauteng is certainly far away for me. However I would like to communicate with you if youíre interested in doing so even though a more involved relationship would seem impractical. I work from home largely sitting at this computer and in doing so I feel Iíve become quite isolated (particularly as I live in a small community that doesnít boast a great cultural life and places to meet the people Iíd like to, plus Iím quite shy socially) and it really is time to start making new friendships.

Children are very important to me. Mine because I love them and have to take care of them. And yours (if you have them) as we all have a responsibility to take care of each otherís children and theyíre usually fun to be around. Having children myself makes me feel that a relationship would be rather more balanced with a partner who also has.

The world is a fascinating place. (Iíd love to keep dashing off to exotic locations if I had the finances, but a journey together someplace away from the tourists would be just great) Although the ever unfolding story of humankind is largely a sad one, I feel it vital to try to learn, and accept it's complexity. I have to admit I do become frustrated with those who show little interest or make crass generalisations or express views laden with prejudice.

Not that I'm looking for a sharp intellectual: I think compassion and grace are the keywords.

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Fashion Sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short; Curly; It has its moods
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Quiet; Realistic; Shy
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Doesn't matter
Music Preferences:
Blues; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Latin; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock
Books:
Fiction; History; Travel
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Comedy/Sit-coms; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife
Movie Preferences:
Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading
Sports:
Athletics; Backgammon; Badminton; Bowling; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Cycling; Darts; Fishing; Ice Skating; Orienteering; Pool; Running; Skiing; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work at home
Time Online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Not any more
Family Size:
I've got a sister
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Power
The Deep Stuff
Religious Attendance:
I'm non-practicing
Politics:
Very Liberal
Honesty:
Very