In Her Own Words
About Her
Life is for living and having fun!
Who would've thought when we were back in high school when computers were new and foreign, that 30 years later we'd be using a computer to look for love/relationships or even new friendships! But the reality is it's not easy to meet people nowadays! I'll be honest -- It does make me feel a bit like a "desperate housewife" but nothing ventured nothing gained!
I'm very affectionate, independent, fun, down-to-earth & sincere!
The good old cliché "life is short" is way too true!
I'm privileged to be a mom of 2 (daughter 24 & son 23)! My kids don't have their dad anymore (died tragically in 2003) and they are my priority in life - they're just growing up way too quickly! I do not see them as "baggage" but rather as part of me / an extension of me! They have been my life but now that they are older, they both agree that it is time that I put myself first and start meeting new people.
Honesty, sincerity, trust and respect is what's very important to me and I have an extremely positive outlook on life!
About Her Ideal Match
I am hoping to meet some new real/genuine friends that will be part of the next chapters in my life's journey! Not expecting or wanting instant romance - meet and become friends and see how things go! Great to have friends of the opposite sex to enjoy all the good times life has to offer us!! It's not all about romance and love etc!! That will be - if it's meant to be & or when it's meant to be!
We're in an awesome age group now where relationships can be based on reality and what truly is important in life! Most of us have "been there, done that".
Whether you're divorced, widowed or not been married yet ..... I do believe in 2nd (some are on 3rd or 4th chances - that's life!) chances to find true happiness! My kids are grown up but I always have been and am crazy about and good with kids so kids don't put me off!!
I love to socialise but also am very comfy just curled up on the couch @ home with my "partner in wine" or just watch a movie or braai with good friends.
I love the bush, the mountains, the sea - I love life actually!
The importance of family and friends needs to be mutual!
We're not all going to be matches that's for sure... so If I don't hear from you ----a sincere good luck in finding what you're looking for out there!
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pietermaritzburg, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Pietermaritzburg (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 58 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Photography; Reading; Sewing; Shopping |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Camping; Cricket; Flying / Gliding; Rugby; Swimming; Walking; Water skiing; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
